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Anger
Anger, The "A" Word
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Anger is a word that creates great discomfort for many people. However, there are many reasons why anger can be a positive contribution to any relationships
Deprivation and Anger
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Feelings of anger often cover many different primary emotions: hurt, confusion, fear, and rejection. Deprivation, often based in fear, is a part of life. Placing our confidence in the Lord's availability may not reduce deprivation but can help increase our ability to be comforted.
Learning to Fight Fair
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
All of us have times when we disagree or fight and fight dirty. There are helpful guidelines to fighting fair. They may be ideal but these guidelines promote the best possible atmosphere for you and for your loved ones.
What's Behind That Anger?
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Anger is a complex emotion and uncomfortable for many. Since anger is often a secondary emotion, one is benefited by identifying the primary emotion anger covers. Along with this are the possible thoughts and demands that feed the anger.
Blame A Block to Healing
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Life hurts sometimes. With the hurt we can look for a person to blame. When we project blame toward others we are really saying they are responsible for our failures. If others are responsible for our failures, do they then get credit for our success? Find ways in this article to combat the temptation to blame.
A Story of Getting Honest
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Being honest with yourself is the first step and straightest line to mental and spiritual health. This is a story about someone struggling with what the “supposed to†form of living produces, and applies to anyone who hides difficult feelings from themselves.
Moving From Shame To Respect
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Moving away from a sense of shame to self respect is very important to our mental and even physical health. Shame means to operate out of a "down deep" sense of not being good enough or that something is very wrong with us. This article gives great guidelines for healthy ways that combat a shame based way of living.
Using Mindfulness to Keep Relationships Healthy
Insights and tips are provided on how use mindfulness to be attentive to others feelings, as well as your own, in everyday experiences, to help strengthen your relationship.
Christmas Shocking
Christmas this year may not happen as you picture it. When things do not go as planned, you may experience Christmas culture shock.
Tips for Talking About Finances
Talking about money can lead to conflict, but research shows that having a plan on how to handle disagreements leads to happier marriages. This article provides some useful tips on handling your differences regarding finances.
To Rescue or Not, That is the Question
Suzan Myhre, M.S.S.W., LICSW, LPC
This article explores ways in which parents rescue their adolescent children and ways to weigh the decision whether to act on their behalf.
Rebuilding After the Storm
August 18, 2005. A record breaking day in the history of Wisconsin with 27 confirmed tornadoes in one twenty-four hour period. In one moment, debris was strewn everywhere and the destruction left behind on that day was well into the millions of dollars. Addiction is destructive, like a tornado, and you are left to deal with the aftermath of a person struggling with addiction. Whether the addiction is food, alcohol, drugs, gambling, or pornography, a trail of wreckage is left behind and rebuilding needs to begin.
Working Hard To Be Liked
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
People pleasers work very hard to be liked and crave love and acceptance from others at the cost of their own identity. The real person can become lost in the daze of perceived expectations. But there is good news.
How Can I Help My Child Deal with Bullying?
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Real steps to help and "how to's" to deal with bullying.
Suicide Prevention: Making the Connection
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Suicide is a very complex subject and is usually not about death at all but rather about wanting to stop the pain. The vast majority of the time, those who are thinking about suicide do give verbal and/ or behavioral warning signs particularly in the last week before the attempt. By knowing the warning signs, loved ones can intervene and provide support. This article lists many verbal and behavioral warning signs of suicide and provides questions to ask if you suspect a loved one may be suicidal.
Moms' To Do List
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Moms are good at taking care of their loved ones but often do not take time for themselves. This article offers encouragement to moms to care for their needs and discusses ways moms can be proactive by nurturing their minds, bodies and spirits.
Conflict
Anger, The "A" Word
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Anger is a word that creates great discomfort for many people. However, there are many reasons why anger can be a positive contribution to any relationships
Confrontation
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Confrontation is a difficult behavior to master yet crucial in our ability to build a sense of equality and respect in relationships. There are specific steps in preparing to confront that one can follow that help in creating the best possible outcome.
Good, Bad or Equal
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Each person in a family or group works at finding the way in which they are special. The process or, at times, battle for significance goes awry. God has perspective on what makes us all equal.
Learning to Fight Fair
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
All of us have times when we disagree or fight and fight dirty. There are helpful guidelines to fighting fair. They may be ideal but these guidelines promote the best possible atmosphere for you and for your loved ones.
Saying I'm Sorry
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Saying "I'm sorry." entail more than these two words. Examples in scripture outline what feeling sorry means and paints a word picture of our internal experience when feeling truly sorry.
Easter Clothes: Throwing Off Cloaks of Unforgiveness
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
Forgiveness brings emotional and spiritual healing. Using Biblical references to Palm Sunday and Easter, and a story from Corrie Ten Boom, this article shows how the old "clothes" or habits around unforgiveness hamper our freedom and joy.
Stand Up For Yourself Without Putting Others Down
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Two vignettes demonstrating how to stand up for yourself without putting others down
Helpful Guidelines For Resolving Conflict
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Conflict is normal and full of potential if we manage it skillfully
How to Stop Bullying
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Helpful suggestions and step by step plan to end bullying
Tearing Down the Wall Through Forgiveness
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
What forgiveness really is and how relationships can be restored
Clearly Wrong: Bad Behavior and What To Do About It
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
How do we reside in the place of love when we fail in our behavior with others. There are times when each of us engages in bad behavior: Behavior we do not find acceptable to God or ourselves. What do we do when we are wrong in our behavior? This article provides answers; a "how to" in moving from bad behavior to a better "place," a forgiven place, a place of reconciliation with God and ourselves.
Mocking In Families
A "Dear Rosa" question and answer regarding the shamed based communication and its impact on family members.
Trauma Happens To Competent Healthy People
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Trauma causes a reaction in people. That reaction is physical because the brain is signaling the body to do something. This is true with natural disasters like floods and tornadoes as well as fighting or past trauma in relationships. What this feels like and how this affects a marital relationship is discussed in this article as well as the beginnings of what to do.
Using Mindfulness to Keep Relationships Healthy
Insights and tips are provided on how use mindfulness to be attentive to others feelings, as well as your own, in everyday experiences, to help strengthen your relationship.
Making Your Way Through Transition
Suzan Myhre, M.S.S.W., LICSW, LPC
This article describes the challenges we face when going through difficult life changes. It also gives a way of navigating through that difficult time.
10 Tips For Solving Problems
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Listed are ten simple yet challenging factors to remember when attempting to bring a difficult conversation to a calmer level. Both parties, working in this manner, may be able to move towards increased understanding of one another and look for ways to have both of you to have the things you value respected.
Validation is Not Agreement
Suzan Myhre, M.S.S.W., LICSW, LPC
This article describes the difference between validating another person's communication and agreeing with it. Examples are given.
Christmas Shocking
Christmas this year may not happen as you picture it. When things do not go as planned, you may experience Christmas culture shock.
Facing the Holidays Together
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Each year numerous couples and families struggle to keep pace with the expectations placed upon them from various sources. Keeping extended family, friends, and each other happy requires great skill around negotiation, self-awareness, and the provision of flexibility. This article outlines several guidelines to be aware of as the festivities are rushing in to eat up your time and energy.
Turning Financial Stress into an Opportunity for Growth and Attachment in Marriage
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Many couples experience financial stress at some point in their marriage. However uncomfortable that stress may be, it can also be an opportunity for growth and attachment in marriage. This article gives tips on how to discuss finances with your spouse in a positive way and to develop a team approach to family finances.
Tips for Talking About Finances
Talking about money can lead to conflict, but research shows that having a plan on how to handle disagreements leads to happier marriages. This article provides some useful tips on handling your differences regarding finances.
To Rescue or Not, That is the Question
Suzan Myhre, M.S.S.W., LICSW, LPC
This article explores ways in which parents rescue their adolescent children and ways to weigh the decision whether to act on their behalf.
What Teens Want Parents to Understand
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Some teens believe that parents "don't get it" or "just don't understand." Recently, I asked teens to help me understand what it was like to be a teenager. This article reports their comments.
Family Finances: Don't Go Solo
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Many couples experience financial stress at some point in their marriage. How they communicate that stress to one another is significant. In this article, Christine provides a plan for couples to talk about family finances that builds unity and a team approach.
Rebuilding After the Storm
August 18, 2005. A record breaking day in the history of Wisconsin with 27 confirmed tornadoes in one twenty-four hour period. In one moment, debris was strewn everywhere and the destruction left behind on that day was well into the millions of dollars. Addiction is destructive, like a tornado, and you are left to deal with the aftermath of a person struggling with addiction. Whether the addiction is food, alcohol, drugs, gambling, or pornography, a trail of wreckage is left behind and rebuilding needs to begin.
Working Hard To Be Liked
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
People pleasers work very hard to be liked and crave love and acceptance from others at the cost of their own identity. The real person can become lost in the daze of perceived expectations. But there is good news.
Trails of Trouble - Children and School Performance
Suzan Myhre, M.S.S.W., LICSW, LPC
This article addresses the many feelings parents and children face as a result of school challenges.
ADHD and Homework: It Can Work!
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Children with ADHD have a tremendous amount of potential. ADHD is not a limitation nor a predictor of school performance. In this article, Christine provides a practical guideline for parents to help make homework time more productive and less stressful.
Cadence 91: Prayer for Military Families
Sarah L. Pollock (daughter of Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMF
Cadence 91 is a poetic prayer in honor of all military serving in Iraq and Afghanistan. Based on Psalm 91, this prayer poignantly depicts the physical, emotional and spiritual trials of war and how the great love and security of Jesus Christ will not fail.
Family Conflict and the Holidays: God Bless Us, Every One!
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Christmas is supposed to be a time of great joy and celebration, isn’t it? Yet, many have a relative or two in which there is some tension. When you consider the extra stress of the shopping, wrapping, food preparation, traveling, and stretched finances, it is no wonder that family gatherings can be stressful. This article provides tips to handle the stress of family and the holidays with God’s help.
Adolescent Girls Battling Eating Disorders
Suzan Myhre, M.S.S.W., LICSW, LPC
This article explores the effects of adolescent female eating disorders on the individual and the family. It also gives options for getting help.
Affairs
Detours in Relationships
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
There are ways of thinking and acting that seem right only to discover they have detoured us off the path of right relating. God has it in his plan for us to become aware and work towards resolution those patterns that keep us from relating to others in a manner pleasing to Him.
An Affair: The Anguish of Betrayal
A "Dear Rosa" question and answer about surviving the discovery of an affair by ones spouse
Making Your Way Through Transition
Suzan Myhre, M.S.S.W., LICSW, LPC
This article describes the challenges we face when going through difficult life changes. It also gives a way of navigating through that difficult time.
Rebuilding After the Storm
August 18, 2005. A record breaking day in the history of Wisconsin with 27 confirmed tornadoes in one twenty-four hour period. In one moment, debris was strewn everywhere and the destruction left behind on that day was well into the millions of dollars. Addiction is destructive, like a tornado, and you are left to deal with the aftermath of a person struggling with addiction. Whether the addiction is food, alcohol, drugs, gambling, or pornography, a trail of wreckage is left behind and rebuilding needs to begin.
Divorce
Children of Divorce: Between Two Worlds
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Children walk through the high pain and intense feelings around divorce but they do not have the same ability to recover from the process of their parents' divorce. Research shows that parents seem to take about three years to recover from divorce. This is not true for children. The effects of divorce on children lasts for decades.
Grieving Another Divorce
A "Dear Rosa" question and answer expressing the anger and hurt one can feel during a divorce in the face of some Christians
Family and Self Care After Divorce
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
A look at the effects of divorce on adults and children and how to cope. This includes five very straightforward supportive directions for the adult raising kids after the divorce.
Making Your Way Through Transition
Suzan Myhre, M.S.S.W., LICSW, LPC
This article describes the challenges we face when going through difficult life changes. It also gives a way of navigating through that difficult time.
Blended Families and Teens
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
Blended families can be challenging for everyone, especially a teenager. Article describes these challenges and ways to help your teen navigate the ups and downs.
Rebuilding After the Storm
August 18, 2005. A record breaking day in the history of Wisconsin with 27 confirmed tornadoes in one twenty-four hour period. In one moment, debris was strewn everywhere and the destruction left behind on that day was well into the millions of dollars. Addiction is destructive, like a tornado, and you are left to deal with the aftermath of a person struggling with addiction. Whether the addiction is food, alcohol, drugs, gambling, or pornography, a trail of wreckage is left behind and rebuilding needs to begin.
Broadcasts
Affairs
God's Fearless Love For Challenging Relationships, #7 of 9, #3311
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
Program explores forgiveness: what it is and what it isn’t. The story of Corrie Ten Boom forgiving one of her captors from a Nazi concentration camp further illustrates key principles around forgiveness.
God's Fearless Love For Challenging Relationships, #6 of 9, #3310
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
This program explores the concept of Godly boundaries in conflictual relationships, and touches on the topic of abuse.
God's Fearless Love For Challenging Relationships, #5 of 9, #3309
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
Challenges in relationships can include others failing us or disappointing us, even in times of our greatest need. This program gives examples of how Christ drew upon God the Father’s love and sovereignty, and His sovereignty in the terrorist attack on the United States, September 11, 2001.
Marital Disloyalty #3 of 3, #3220
Suzan Myhre, M.S.S.W., LICSW, LPC
Suzan Myhre and Paul Cameron look at the process that encourages marital disloyalty and the choices people make that lead them down this path.
Marital Disloyalty #2 of 3, #3219
Suzan Myhre, M.S.S.W., LICSW, LPC
Suzan Myhre and Paul Cameron look at the process that encourages marital disloyalty and the choices people make that lead them down this path.
Marital Disloyalty #1 of 3, #3218
Suzan Myhre, M.S.S.W., LICSW, LPC
Suzan Myhre and Paul Cameron look at the process that encourages marital disloyalty and the choices people make that lead them down this path.
After the Affair #4 of 4, #3241
Suzan Myhre, M.S.S.W., LICSW, LPC
Suzan Myhre and Lynda Savage discuss how to cope in the days that follow the revelation of an affair.
After the Affair #3 of 4, #3240
Suzan Myhre, M.S.S.W., LICSW, LPC
Suzan Myhre and Lynda Savage discuss how to cope in the days that follow the revelation of an affair.
After the Affair #2 of 4, #3239
Suzan Myhre, M.S.S.W., LICSW, LPC
Suzan Myhre and Lynda Savage discuss how to cope in the days that follow the revelation of an affair.
After the Affair #1 of 4, #3238
Suzan Myhre, M.S.S.W., LICSW, LPC
Suxan Myhre and Lynda Savage discuss how to cope in the days that follow the revelation of an affair.
When Secret Sin Breaks Your Heart #2 of 2, #3047
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
This program continues the discussion of the devastation a wife experiences after discovering her husband's involvement in pornography or with another woman,
Rich and Janet: A Journey Toward Healing #6 of 6, #3134
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Rich and Janet wrap up this series on their compelling story of how God brought reconciliation to their seemingly hopeless situation.
When Secret Sin Breaks Your Heart #1of 2, #3046
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Discussion of the devastation a wife experiences after discovering her husband's involvement in pornography or with another woman.
Rich and Janet: A Journey Toward Healing #5 of 6, #3133
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Rich and Janet share their compelling story of the man's journey into and out of internet addiction. They are candid and revealing about the triggers, steps away from one another and how God brought reconciliation to a seemingly hopeless situation.
Rich and Janet: A Journey Toward Healing #4 of 6, #3132
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Rich and Janet continue to share their compelling story of the man's journey into and out of internet addiction. They are candid and revealing about the triggers, steps away from one another and how God brought reconciliation to a seemingly hopeless situation.
Rich and Janet: A Journey Toward Healing #3 of 6, #3131
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Rich and Janet share a compelling story of the man's journey into and out of Internet addiction. They are candid and revealing about the triggers, steps away from one another and how God brought reconciliation to a seemingly hopeless situation.
Rich and Janet: A Journey Toward Healing #2 of 6, #3130
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
A compelling story about a couple, Rich and Janet, who share the man's journey into and out of internet addiction. They are candid and revealing about the triggers, steps away from one another and how God brought reconciliation to a seemingly hopeless situation.
Rich and Janet: A Journey Toward Healing #1 of 6, #3129
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
A compelling story: (six part series). A couple, Rich and Janet share the man's journey into and out of internet addiction. They are candid and revealing about the triggers, steps away from one another and how god brought reconciliation to a seemingly hopeless situation.
Temptation Outside of Marriage #3093
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
This program discusses resisting sexual temptation, subtle attractions and where and when to invite Jesus in.
Anger
Moms' To Do List, #3 of 3, #3377
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Moms are good at taking care of their loved ones but often do not take time for themselves. In this three part series, Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage offer encouragement to moms and discuss ways for moms to take care of their minds, bodies and spirits.
Moms' To Do List, #2 of 3, #3376
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Moms are good at taking care of their loved ones but often do not take time for themselves. This article offers encouragement to moms to care for their needs and discusses ways moms can be proactive by nurturing their minds, bodies and spirits.
Moms' To Do List, #1 of 3, #3375
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Moms are good at taking care of their loved ones but often do not take time for themselves. This article offers encouragement to moms to care for their needs and discusses ways moms can be proactive by nurturing their minds, bodies and spirits.
Standing Up For Yourself While Honoring Others, #4 of 4, #3350
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Conflict can serve to deepen and strengthen relationships when handled well. In this four part series, Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss important principles in handling conflict and standing up for yourself that can lead to deeper and more satisfying relationships.
Standing Up For Yourself While Honoring Others, #3 of 4, #3349
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Conflict can serve to deepen and strengthen relationships when handled well. In this four part series, Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss important principles in handling conflict and standing up for yourself that can lead to deeper and more satisfying relationships.
Standing Up For Yourself While Honoring Others, #2 of 4, #3348
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Conflict can serve to deepen and strengthen relationships when handled well. In this four part series, Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss important principles in handling conflict and standing up for yourself that can lead to deeper and more satisfying relationships.
Standing Up For Yourself While Honoring Others, #1 of 4, #3347
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Conflict can serve to deepen and strengthen relationships when handled well. In this four part series, Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss important principles in handling conflict and standing up for yourself that can lead to deeper and more satisfying relationships.
Working Hard To Be Liked, #3 of 3, #3346
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
People pleasers work very hard to be liked and crave love and acceptance from others at the cost of their own identity. The real person can become lost in the daze of perceived expectations. In this series of radio programs, Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss the need to please and provide practical suggestions on breaking the habit of people pleasing.
Working Hard To Be Liked, #2 of 3, #3345
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
People pleasers work very hard to be liked and crave love and acceptance from others at the cost of their own identity. The real person can become lost in the daze of perceived expectations. In this series of radio programs, Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss the need to please and provide practical suggestions on breaking the habit of people pleasing.
Working Hard To Be Liked, #1 of 3, #3344
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
People pleasers work very hard to be liked and crave love and acceptance from others at the cost of their own identity. The real person can become lost in the daze of perceived expectations. In this series of radio programs, Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss the need to please and provide practical suggestions on breaking the habit of people pleasing.
Honey, are you doing that to bug me? #5 of 5, #3338
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
We sometimes think that our spouses do things just to bug us, when it is really how they are hard wired. In this series Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss some of the more common ways that spouses may be hard wired differently.
Honey, are you doing that to bug me? #4 of 5, #3337
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
We sometimes think that our spouses do things just to bug us, when it is really how they are hard wired. In this series Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss some of the more common ways that spouses may be hard wired differently.
Honey, are you doing that to bug me? #3 of 5, #3336
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
We sometimes think that our spouses do things just to bug us, when it is really how they are hard wired. In this series Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss some of the more common ways that spouses may be hard wired differently.
Honey, are you doing that to bug me? #2 of 5, #3335
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
We sometimes think that our spouses do things just to bug us, when it is really how they are hard wired. In this series Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss some of the more common ways that spouses may be hard wired differently.
Honey, are you doing that to bug me? #1 of 5, #3334
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
We sometimes think that our spouses do things just to bug us, when it is really how they are hard wired. In this series Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss some of the more common ways that spouses may be hard wired differently.
God's Fearless Love For Challenging Relationships, #9 of 9, #3313
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
This program is a conversational wrap-up between Lynda Savage and Mary Lambrecht of the series: God’s Fearless Love for Challenging Relationships. It reviews main concepts around challenging relationships: unspoken dreams, communication with challenging individuals, abiding in Christ, Biblical relational models for challenging relationships, and how forgiveness is important.
God's Fearless Love For Challenging Relationships, #8 of 9, #3312
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
Program looks at the benefits of forgiveness, including spiritual freedom and hope for the future. Mary Lambrecht shares a personal story of forgiveness and a short testimony of her brother’s salvation in Christ, shortly before he died of AIDS in 1991.
God's Fearless Love For Challenging Relationships, #7 of 9, #3311
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
Program explores forgiveness: what it is and what it isn’t. The story of Corrie Ten Boom forgiving one of her captors from a Nazi concentration camp further illustrates key principles around forgiveness.
God's Fearless Love For Challenging Relationships, #6 of 9, #3310
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
This program explores the concept of Godly boundaries in conflictual relationships, and touches on the topic of abuse.
God's Fearless Love For Challenging Relationships, #5 of 9, #3309
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
Challenges in relationships can include others failing us or disappointing us, even in times of our greatest need. This program gives examples of how Christ drew upon God the Father’s love and sovereignty, and His sovereignty in the terrorist attack on the United States, September 11, 2001.
God's Fearless Love For Challenging Relationships, #4 of 9, #3308
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
When conflict occurs in a relationship, we can learn to draw from God’s agape love, rather than from our own human love. Through a story of a boy and a horse, this program explores how the principle of abiding in Christ can both help us love others, and also give us wisdom with appropriate boundaries with others.
God's Fearless Love For Challenging Relationships, #3 of 9, #3307
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
This program further explores, through study of the story of Jesus raising Lazarus from the dead (John 11), healthy principles of relating to others in challenging times.
God's Fearless Love For Challenging Relationships, #2 of 9, #3306
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
Conflict and challenges in relationships were part of Jesus’ walk on earth, just as they are part of our earthly walk. This program will explore how Jesus, Lazarus, and Mary and Martha effectively walked through conflict with one another to a place of love and understanding.
God's Fearless Love For Challenging Relationships, #1 of 9, #3305
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
Fears around the loss of a personal dream can influence our relationships. This program will explore how unspoken inner hopes and dreams can cause conflict in relationships, and how Christ can help us verbalize dreams to self and others.
Chronic Disease: From Grief to Hope, #3 of 3, #3295
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Chronic Disease affects roughly 45% of the total population. Behind this statistic are faces and experiences of real people and their families. In this three part series, Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss five stages of grief people may experience and how family members can help. In part 3 the stages of depression and acceptance are discussed.
Chronic Disease: From Grief to Hope, #2 of 3, #3294
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Chronic Disease affects roughly 45% of the total population. Behind this statistic are faces and experiences of real people and their families. In this three part series, Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss five stages of grief people may experience and how family members can help. In part 2 the stages of denial, anger, bargaining and depression are discussed.
Chronic Disease: From Grief to Hope, #1 of 3, #3293
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Chronic Disease affects roughly 45% of the total population. Behind this statistic are faces and experiences of real people and their families. In this three part series, Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss five stages of grief people may experience and how family members can help. In part 1 the topic is introduced and the stage of denial is discussed.
Blame: Stop the Downward Spiral #2 of 2, #3217
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Blame may help your hurting for a short time. However, blame does not address your inward unrest. This program with Lynda Savage and Paul Cameron, helps the hurt inside when you are tempted to blame.
Blame: Stop the Downward Spiral #1 of 2, #3216
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Blame may help your hurting for a short time. However, blame does not address your inward unrest. This program, with Lynda Savage and Paul Cameron, helps the hurt inside when you are tempted to blame.
The Blame Game #2 of 2, #3190
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
In part two, stopping blame is the refusal to let yourself complain and find fault. This allows you to have room to seek answers to your situation.
The Blame Game #1 of 2, #3189
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Part one of the Blame Game shows how we shrug off responsibilty by using blame. Blaming others or circumstances keeps us bound up to the "wrong" we perceive.
What's Behind Anger? #3 of 3, #3174
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Brenda Spina and Paul Cameron discuss the varied emotions that anger may cover along with core expectations we may be operating out of. These expectations often are not accurate. Also discussed the positive aspects of anger, normalizing it's existence as well as pointing out ways anger can be helpful.
What's Behind Anger? #2 of 3, #3173
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Brenda Spina and Paul Cameron discuss the varied emotions that anger may cover along with core expectations we may be operating out of. These expectations are often not accurate. Also discussed are the positive aspects of anger, normalizing it's existence as well as pointing out ways anger can be helpful.
What's Behind Anger? #1 of 3, #3172
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Brenda Spina and Paul Cameron discuss the varied emotions that anger may cover along with core expectations we may be operating out of. These emotions often more accurately express our true experience. Also discussed are the positive aspects of anger, normalizing it's existence as well as pointing out ways anger can be helpful.
Anger and Deprivation #2 of 2, #3065
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Deprivation is unavoidable and anger is normal. On these programs understanding the connection and its impact on our relationship with the Lord and others will be addressed.
Anger: How to Cope #5 of 5, #3139
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
A five part series addressing questions and providing answers regarding the common emotion known as anger.
Anger: How to Cope #4 of 5, #3138
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
A five part series focusing on questions and answers to the common emotion of anger. What is anger? Where does it come from? What are the ways to allow God to help with anger? How do stress, depression and anger work together in the body?
Anger: How to Cope #3 of 5, #3137
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
What is anger? Where does it come from? How can we be gentle with ourselves if we struggle with anger, yet deal with it seriously? What are the ways to allow God to help with anger? How do stress, depression, and anger work together in the body? These questions and answers make up a very interesting five part series on anger.
Anger: How to Cope #2 of 5, #3136
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
What is anger? Where does it come from? How can we be gentle with ourselves if we struggle with anger, yet deal with it seriously? What are the ways to allow God to help with anger? How do stress, depression, and anger work together in the body? These questions and answers make up a very interesting five part series on anger.
Anger: How To Cope #1 of 5, #3135
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
What is anger? Where does it come from? How can we be gentle with ourselves if we struggle with anger, yet deal with it seriously? What are the ways to allow God to help with anger? How do stress, depression, and anger work together in the body? These questions and answers make up a very interesting five part series on anger featuring Phil Panier and family therapist, Lynda Savage.
Functions of Chronic Anger #5 of 5, #2120
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Individual are often unconsciously or consciously afraid of losing the relationship they have. Anger may be used as a way of holding the relationship together.
Functions of Chronic Anger #4 of 5, #2119
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Sometimes in an attempt to gain a feeling of status or position, anger is used. Listen as this need is discussed and how people can respond.
Functions of Chronic Anger #3 of 5, #2118
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
There are a variety of ways in which individuals use anger to gain power over others. Listen and hear what behaviors are associated with anger in this type of dynamic.
Functions of Chronic Anger #2 of 5, #2117
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Discussion continues as to the reasons why people get angry and how to deal with the anger.
Functions of Chronic Anger #1 of 5, #2116
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Anger is frightening for many. Identifying the different styles of anger and how they function in relationships may help demystify the reasoning behind particular types of anger.
Conflict
ADHD and Homework: It Can Work! #3 of 3, #3361
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Children with ADHD have a tremendous amount of potential. ADHD is not a limitation nor a predictor of school performance. In this 3 part series, Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss practical ways parents can help make homework time more productive and less stressful.
ADHD and Homework: It Can Work! #2 of 3, #3360
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Children with ADHD have a tremendous amount of potential. ADHD is not a limitation nor a predictor of school performance. In this 3 part series, Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss practical ways parents can help make homework time more productive and less stressful.
ADHD and Homework: It Can Work! #1 of 3, #3359
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Children with ADHD have a tremendous amount of potential. ADHD is not a limitation nor a predictor of school performance. In this 3-part series, Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss practical ways parents can help make homework time more productive and less stressful.
Family Conflict and the Holidays: God Bless Us, Every One! #2 of 2, #3352
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Christmas is supposed to be a time of great joy and celebration, isn’t it? Yet, many of us find the stress of family and holiday gatherings to be a recipe for conflict. In this two part radio series, Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage share tips on how to handle the stress of family and the holidays.
Family Conflict and the Holidays: God Bless Us, Every One! #1 of 2, #3351
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Christmas is supposed to be a time of great joy and celebration, isn’t it? Yet, many of us find the stress of family and holiday gatherings to be a recipe for conflict. In this two part radio series, Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage share tips on how to handle the stress of family and the holidays.
Standing Up For Yourself While Honoring Others, #4 of 4, #3350
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Conflict can serve to deepen and strengthen relationships when handled well. In this four part series, Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss important principles in handling conflict and standing up for yourself that can lead to deeper and more satisfying relationships.
Standing Up For Yourself While Honoring Others, #3 of 4, #3349
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Conflict can serve to deepen and strengthen relationships when handled well. In this four part series, Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss important principles in handling conflict and standing up for yourself that can lead to deeper and more satisfying relationships.
Standing Up For Yourself While Honoring Others, #2 of 4, #3348
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Conflict can serve to deepen and strengthen relationships when handled well. In this four part series, Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss important principles in handling conflict and standing up for yourself that can lead to deeper and more satisfying relationships.
Standing Up For Yourself While Honoring Others, #1 of 4, #3347
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Conflict can serve to deepen and strengthen relationships when handled well. In this four part series, Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss important principles in handling conflict and standing up for yourself that can lead to deeper and more satisfying relationships.
Working Hard To Be Liked, #3 of 3, #3346
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
People pleasers work very hard to be liked and crave love and acceptance from others at the cost of their own identity. The real person can become lost in the daze of perceived expectations. In this series of radio programs, Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss the need to please and provide practical suggestions on breaking the habit of people pleasing.
Working Hard To Be Liked, #2 of 3, #3345
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
People pleasers work very hard to be liked and crave love and acceptance from others at the cost of their own identity. The real person can become lost in the daze of perceived expectations. In this series of radio programs, Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss the need to please and provide practical suggestions on breaking the habit of people pleasing.
Working Hard To Be Liked, #1 of 3, #3344
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
People pleasers work very hard to be liked and crave love and acceptance from others at the cost of their own identity. The real person can become lost in the daze of perceived expectations. In this series of radio programs, Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss the need to please and provide practical suggestions on breaking the habit of people pleasing.
Honey, are you doing that to bug me? #5 of 5, #3338
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
We sometimes think that our spouses do things just to bug us, when it is really how they are hard wired. In this series Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss some of the more common ways that spouses may be hard wired differently.
Honey, are you doing that to bug me? #4 of 5, #3337
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
We sometimes think that our spouses do things just to bug us, when it is really how they are hard wired. In this series Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss some of the more common ways that spouses may be hard wired differently.
Honey, are you doing that to bug me? #3 of 5, #3336
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
We sometimes think that our spouses do things just to bug us, when it is really how they are hard wired. In this series Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss some of the more common ways that spouses may be hard wired differently.
Honey, are you doing that to bug me? #2 of 5, #3335
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
We sometimes think that our spouses do things just to bug us, when it is really how they are hard wired. In this series Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss some of the more common ways that spouses may be hard wired differently.
Honey, are you doing that to bug me? #1 of 5, #3334
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
We sometimes think that our spouses do things just to bug us, when it is really how they are hard wired. In this series Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss some of the more common ways that spouses may be hard wired differently.
Family Finances: Don't Go Solo, #4 of 4, #3327
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Many couples experience financial stress at some point in their marriage. How they communicate that stress to one another is significant. In this four part series, Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss ways couples can talk about family finances that builds unity and a team approach to family finances.
Family Finances: Don't Go Solo, #3 of 4, #3326
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Many couples experience financial stress at some point in their marriage. How they communicate that stress to one another is significant. In this four part series, Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss ways couples can talk about family finances that builds unity and a team approach to family finances.
Family Finances: Don't Go Solo, #2 of 4, #3325
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Many couples experience financial stress at some point in their marriage. How they communicate that stress to one another is significant. In this four part series, Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss ways couples can talk about family finances that builds unity and a team approach to family finances.
Family Finances: Don't Go Solo, #1 of 4, #3324
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Many couples experience financial stress at some point in their marriage. How they communicate that stress to one another is significant. In this four part series, Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss ways couples can talk about family finances that builds unity and a team approach to family finances.
What Teens Want Parents to Understand, #3 of 3, #3223
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
As teens are going through many changes, they sometimes assume that parents don't get it or just don't understand. Recently, Christine Vander Wielen asked teens, "What would you like parents to understand about being a teen?" In this three-part series of broadcasts, Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss the teens answers and provide parenting tips to help parents and teens remain connected during the teen years.
What Teens Want Parents to Understand, #2 of 3, #3222
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
As teens are going through many changes, they sometimes assume that parents don't get it or just don't understand. Recently, Christine Vander Wielen asked teens, "What would you like parents to understand about being a teen?" In this three-part series of broadcasts, Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss the teens answers and provide parenting tips to help parents and teens remain connected during the teen years.
What Teens Want Parents to Understand, #1 of 3, #3321
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
As teens are going through many changes, they sometimes assume that parents don't get it or just don't understand. Recently, Christine Vander Wielen asked teens, "What would you like parents to understand about being a teen?" In this three-part series of broadcasts, Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss the teens' answers and provide parenting tips to help parents and teens remain connected during the teen years.
God's Fearless Love For Challenging Relationships, #9 of 9, #3313
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
This program is a conversational wrap-up between Lynda Savage and Mary Lambrecht of the series: God’s Fearless Love for Challenging Relationships. It reviews main concepts around challenging relationships: unspoken dreams, communication with challenging individuals, abiding in Christ, Biblical relational models for challenging relationships, and how forgiveness is important.
God's Fearless Love For Challenging Relationships, #8 of 9, #3312
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
Program looks at the benefits of forgiveness, including spiritual freedom and hope for the future. Mary Lambrecht shares a personal story of forgiveness and a short testimony of her brother’s salvation in Christ, shortly before he died of AIDS in 1991.
God's Fearless Love For Challenging Relationships, #7 of 9, #3311
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
Program explores forgiveness: what it is and what it isn’t. The story of Corrie Ten Boom forgiving one of her captors from a Nazi concentration camp further illustrates key principles around forgiveness.
God's Fearless Love For Challenging Relationships, #6 of 9, #3310
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
This program explores the concept of Godly boundaries in conflictual relationships, and touches on the topic of abuse.
God's Fearless Love For Challenging Relationships, #5 of 9, #3309
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
Challenges in relationships can include others failing us or disappointing us, even in times of our greatest need. This program gives examples of how Christ drew upon God the Father’s love and sovereignty, and His sovereignty in the terrorist attack on the United States, September 11, 2001.
God's Fearless Love For Challenging Relationships, #4 of 9, #3308
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
When conflict occurs in a relationship, we can learn to draw from God’s agape love, rather than from our own human love. Through a story of a boy and a horse, this program explores how the principle of abiding in Christ can both help us love others, and also give us wisdom with appropriate boundaries with others.
God's Fearless Love For Challenging Relationships, #3 of 9, #3307
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
This program further explores, through study of the story of Jesus raising Lazarus from the dead (John 11), healthy principles of relating to others in challenging times.
God's Fearless Love For Challenging Relationships, #2 of 9, #3306
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
Conflict and challenges in relationships were part of Jesus’ walk on earth, just as they are part of our earthly walk. This program will explore how Jesus, Lazarus, and Mary and Martha effectively walked through conflict with one another to a place of love and understanding.
God's Fearless Love For Challenging Relationships, #1 of 9, #3305
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
Fears around the loss of a personal dream can influence our relationships. This program will explore how unspoken inner hopes and dreams can cause conflict in relationships, and how Christ can help us verbalize dreams to self and others.
Trauma in Relationships, #3281
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Trauma happens to competent, healthy, strong, people. An unexpected assault on the senses or in any way a harmful stressor will cause a natural reaction to anyone. It is lovingly important to know what this response is doing to us in healthy and unhealthy ways. This fascinating program will look at how we are impacted by trauma and what to do about it.
The Silent Treatment: A Different Perspective, #3191
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Lynda Savage and Paul Cameron discuss better ways to work through the hurts which cause the "silent treatment."
Trauma and Triggers in Relationships: Conflicts Born in the Past #2 of 2, #3245
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Many bumps in the road of relationships turn into major clashes because of past trauma in the history of one or both people. Lynda and Paul discuss this pattern and how to recover peace and calm between the parties involved.
Trauma and Triggers in Relationships: Conflicts Born in the Past #1 of 2, #3244
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Many bumps in the road of relationship turn into major clashes because of past trauma in the history of one or both people. Lynda and Paul discuss this pattern and how to recover peace and calm between the parties involved.
Saying I'm Sorry #2 of 2, #3243
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
We are taught from an early age to say "I'm sorry." We may not initially understand what we are saying or the need for this expression. However, in these two programs, Brenda Spina and Paul Cameron discuss examples from Scripture that help us understand the importance of, the sides of, and the blessings of saying "I'm sorry."
Saying I'm Sorry #1 of 2, #3242
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
We are taught from an early age to say "I'm sorry." We may not initially understand what we are saying or the need for this expression. However, in these two programs, Brenda Spina and Paul Cameron discuss examples from Scripture that help us understand the importance of, the sides of, and the blessings of saying "I'm sorry."
Dealing With Disappointment #2 of 2, #3150
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
In this two part series, Lynda Savage reviews steps to help yourself when feeling disappointed. The why of allowing yourself, including the physical aspects of your body, time to "settle down" is included in this discussion.
Dealing With Disappointment #1of 2, #3149
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
In this two part series, Lynda Savage reviews steps to help yourself when feeling disappointed. The why of allowing yourself, including the physical aspects of your body, time to "settle down" is included in this discussion.
Confrontation #3 of 3, #3068
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
However we picture confrontation, it really is an act of love. These programs cover a series of questions one can use in the preparation for confrontation as well as take a look at God's plan for the result in His confronting each of us.
Confrontation #2 of 3, #3067
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
The word confrontation can conjure up many different pictures in people's imagination. These programs cover a series of questions one can use in the preparation for confrontation as well as take a look at God's plan for the result in His confronting each of us.
Confrontation #1 of 3, #3066
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
The word confrontation can conjure up many different pictures in people's imagination. These programs cover a series of questions one can use in the preparation for confrontation as well as take a look at God's plan for the result in His confronting each of us.
Humor and Humiliation #2 of 2, #3060
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Humor and Humiliation- These programs take a look at how God views people who engage in this type of behavior. It also includes suggestions for those who may find themselves the brunt of this kind of humor.
Humor and Humiliation #1 of 2, #3059
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Humor coupled with humiliation is one of the most accepted ways of having fun in today's world. When humor and humiliation are coupled together the result is a tearing down of the receiver.
Releasing Others - Canceling The Debt #2 of 2, #2214
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
This program discusses the three aspects of forgiveness and canceling the debt.
Releasing Others - Releasing Others #1 of 2, #2213
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
When we forigve, it is God's way of helping us to become free as well as allowing God to work on the person. If we don't forgive, we stay stuck.
The Silent Treatment #3116
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
When people use emotional cut-off with each other, it is the beginning of the end of a relationships unless a reversal of this pattern is sought and practiced. Lynda and Paul discuss the ins and outs of "The Silent Treatment".
Forgive For Good #3 of 3, #3076
Suzan Myhre, M.S.S.W., LICSW, LPC
Forgiving for good begins within ourselves. Metaphorically this process reveals how God forgives each one of us.
Forgive For Good #2 of 3, #3075
Suzan Myhre, M.S.S.W., LICSW, LPC
Through the story of the Prodigal Son, you will see forgiveness towards others happens within ourselves. This process is a metaphor for how God forgives each of us.
Forgive For Good #1 of 3, #3074
Suzan Myhre, M.S.S.W., LICSW, LPC
Using the story of the Prodigal Son, qualities of each character with in the story are explored.
Handling Criticism #3071
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Sometimes criticism is helpful. Sometimes it is not. This program offers tips for handling criticism when it hurts and when it helps.
Good Words - Bad Words- How To Respond To Bad Words, #2155
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Nicknames, untrue statements, unfair labels imprint us, much like an object in playdough. This program aids in identifying our imprints as well as ways to resist those which are harmful. It is these things that lock out the truth of God's Word about who we are.
Great Love Equals Great Responsibility #5 of 5, #3031
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
The last in a series of five programs regarding responsibility in relationships, a look is taken at the reality that certain aspects of the relationship may not change.
Great Love Equals Great Responsibility #4 of 5, #3030
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
A continuation of the seven implications regarding our responsibility in relationships
Great Love Equals Great Responsibility #3 of 5, #3029
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Blame can be destructive to any relationship. Seeing ourselves and others as God sees us is important in providing unity of purpose as well as avoiding division in the family of God.
Great Love Equals Great Responsibility #2 of 5, #3028
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Based on Philippians 2 this program takes a look at ways to be responsible for our own part in relationships and become more like Christ.
Consequences of Comparing #2 of 2, #3023
Suzan Myhre, M.S.S.W., LICSW, LPC
What happens to relationships when we compare ourselves to each other? Comparing blocks our loving connections to each other. Also discussed are ways to combat this divisive behavior pattern.
Consequences of Comparing #1 of 2, #3022
Suzan Myhre, M.S.S.W., LICSW, LPC
What happens to relationships when we compare ourselves to each other? Comparing blocks our loving connections to each other. Also discussed are ways to combat this divisive behavior pattern.
Living Peaceably #2 of 2, #3013
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Living peaceably may not mean finding solutions as much as managing differences that exist between two people.
Living Peaceably #1 of 2, #3009
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Living peaceably may not mean finding solutions as much as managing the differences that are between two people.
But I'm The Nice One #2 of 2, #2350
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Being nice and acting nice are two different things. Being nice, at times, means being honest. Have you ever wondered what may happen when the nice one and the honest one connect?
But I'm The Nice One #1 of 2, #2349
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
As you may know, there is a big difference between acting nice and being nice. Is it all an act? The nurturance of honesty in our inward parts with God's help is what will help us know.
There's A Tyrant In The House #2 of 2, #2348
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Conflict, although a natural part of intimate relationships, is not always easy to make sense of. The parts of our personality that come out when we are angry or tired need help and care. Listen as these helps are discussed.
There's A Tyrant In The House #1 of 2, #2347
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Conflict is not something easily understood yet is a natural part of our intimate relationships. Lynda and Brenda discuss the parts of our personality that come out when we're angry and tired. Specific helps are provided in learning to deal with these parts of our personality.
When Couples Fight #3 of 3, #2335
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
As you may know, negotiating contract with each other is not always a peaceful process. Whether it is overtly or covertly arguing, we tend to diminish one another. Finding Courage with the help of God to change the fighting cycle is crucial. God uses our arguments with others to change and grow us up.
When Couples Fight #2 of 3, #2334
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
As you may know, negotiating contracts with each other is not always a peaceful process. Disagreements, whether overt or covert, can end up in diminishment of one another. Finding courage with the help of God to change the fighting cycle is crucial. God uses our arguments with others to change and grow us up.
When Couples Fight #1 of 3, #2333
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
As you may know, negotiating contracts with each other is not always a peaceful process. Whether we fight overly or covertly the tendency is to diminish one another. Finding courage with the help of God to change the fighting cycle is crucial. God uses our arguments with others to change and grow us up.
Why Women Crash & Men Get Frustrated #3 of 4, #2301
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Ever get to the end of your "emotional rope"? Discussed here are some of the dynamics that happen when women continue to be physically and emotionally overwhelmed.
Why Women Crash & Men Get Frustrated #2 of 3, #2300
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Ever get to the end of your "emotional rope"? Discussed here are some of the dynamics of what happens when women continue to be physically and emotionally overwhelmed.
Why Men Pull Away #4 of 4, #2298
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
The age old discussion of gender differences rises once again. Lynda and Paul wrap up the series discussing possible triggers as to why men pull away from women.
Why Men Pull Away #3 of 4, #2297
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
The age old discussion of gender differences rises once again. Discussed are the differences in needs for communication and possible triggers that cause men to pull away.
Why Men Pull Away #2 of 4, #2296
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
The age old discussion of gender differences arises once again. The differences in needs regarding communication is discussed along with possible factors that trigger men pulling away from women.
Boundaries: Murder By Mouth #2 of 2, #2281
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Gossip can be destructive to any relationship and the trust needed to maintain a sense of connectedness. This program takes a look at gossip, its impact on the victim of gossip both at work and at home.
False Assumptions: Love Knots #2 of 4, #1069
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Discussion of the love knots caused by subconscious assumptions continues. Specific love knots are presented.
The Need To Win: God's Way #4 of 4, #698
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Discouraged about your own competitiveness? Tune in and be encouraged! God has your best in mind.
The Need To Win: God Overcomes It #3 of 4, #697
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Scripture outlines practical ways in which we can overcome the inner battles that keep us locked into the need to win.
The Need To Win: What's It About? #2 of 4, #696
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
As we continue discussion, we discover underlying fears and assumptions that inhibit the resolution of conflict.
The Need To Win: A Look at Winning #1 of 4, #695
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
How do you feel when you think you might lose a fight? Join us as we take a look at our 'need' to win.
Learning How To Fight Fair #4 or 4, #692
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Let's take a look at understanding the reason why you are fighting and how does fighting fit in?
Learning How To Fight Fair, #3 of 4, #691
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
A key to healthy conflict is taking responsibility for yourself, how you feel, how you think, and your ideas.
Learning How To Fight Fair #2 of 4, #690
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Yes, conflict does not have to end up abusive. Discussed today is setting a goal to find a solution.
Double Binds: Telling Others #612
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
The importance of expression of experience and feelings in these situations.
Agreeing to Disagree #572
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
This program reminds us that each individual does not have the entire picture of a situation and how this needs to be remembered during a discussion.
Divorce
God's Fearless Love For Challenging Relationships, #7 of 9, #3311
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
Program explores forgiveness: what it is and what it isn’t. The story of Corrie Ten Boom forgiving one of her captors from a Nazi concentration camp further illustrates key principles around forgiveness.
God's Fearless Love For Challenging Relationships, #6 of 9, #3310
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
This program explores the concept of Godly boundaries in conflictual relationships, and touches on the topic of abuse.
God's Fearless Love For Challenging Relationships, #5 of 9, #3309
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
Challenges in relationships can include others failing us or disappointing us, even in times of our greatest need. This program gives examples of how Christ drew upon God the Father’s love and sovereignty, and His sovereignty in the terrorist attack on the United States, September 11, 2001.
