Couples
Articles
Valentine's Day: Cheesy or Not, Affection Appreciated
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
The following is from an anonymous male: "We really are in a bind. Yes, it's a schmaltzy holiday, originally...
When We Apologize
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Apologies are so easily thrown out that it becomes difficult to known when they are genuine. Brenda defines a few...
Men Often Feel Stuck
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Once in a while I try to count the men/couples I've worked with in the therapy room over the forty plus years of...
The Healing Cycle and The Wounding Cycle
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC, Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., LCSW, Carrissa Pannuzzo, M.A., LMFT, LPC, Laura Demetrician, M.S., LMFT
The wounding process in relationships can be cyclical. If repeated enough times, our responses become second nature...
The We/They Mentality
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
This mentality can be destructive. Although perhaps temporarily necessary in something like sports, the we/then...
Games People Play to Avoid Taking Responsibility
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
People, because they fear losing love or arousing anger often learn to get their needs met by indirect means. Games...
One Sure Thing In Successful Relationships
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
I’m teaching a couples class. I’m sharing with them well-researched and applied points that assure success in...
Guarding the Calendar
Laura Demetrician, M.S., LMFT
Life can feel out of control sometimes, and as the school year starts, I recommend taking an honest real look at the...
Five Steps in Forgiving
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Forgiveness is not sympathy. Forgiveness is not denying unfairness. Forgiveness does not have to forget...
Rambling Resentments
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Bitter discontent at being treated unfairly. We all experience it. People, circumstances and situations lingering...
Broadcasts
Going to the Farm - 2 of 3 - #3512
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Growth in relationship as well as with the Lord reveals a very distinct process. Faith coupled with diligence...
Going to the Farm - 1 of 3 - #3511
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Growth in relationship as well as with the Lord reveals a very distinct process. Faith coupled with diligence...
Games People Play - 2 of 2 - #3508
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
People, because they fear losing love or arousing anger often learn to get their needs met by indirect means. Games...
Games People Play - 1 of 2 - #3507
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
People, because they fear losing love or arousing anger often learn to get their needs met by indirect means. Games...
Facing Your Fears - 5 of 5 - #3497
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Brenda, Lynda, and Sarah converge together to talk about the fears we carry that keep us stuck in unhealthy...
Facing Your Fears - 4 of 5 - #3496
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Brenda, Lynda, and Sarah converge together to talk about the fears we carry that keep us stuck in unhealthy...
Facing Your Fears - 3 of 5 - #3495
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Brenda, Lynda, and Sarah converge together to talk about the fears we carry that keep us stuck in unhealthy...
Facing Your Fears - 2 of 5 - #3494
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Brenda, Lynda, and Sarah converge together to talk about the fears we carry that keep us stuck in unhealthy...
Facing Your Fears - 1 of 5 - #3493
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Brenda, Lynda, and Sarah converge together to talk about the fears we carry that keep us stuck in unhealthy...
Mars & Venus on the Rebound part 3 #3437
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Anyone who has had their heart broken will appreciate the information this series has to offer. Outlining the signs...