The parent of a potential misuser of alcohol is in a difficult position of loving their young adult yet insisting on respect for the household. Here are a few guidelines:

•     DON’T confront your young adult when they are under the influence.

•     DON’T make excuses to your spouse, family, friends or school authorities for your young adult’s drinking.

•     DON’T take responsibility for your young adult’s drinking problem.

•     DO stay honest with the Lord and yourself about your grief.  Seek professional help if necessary. Always hold the young adult responsible for the choices they are making.