• Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
  • Series: Dear Rosa

Did you know if you put a crab in a bucket it will crawl out? If you put two crabs in a bucket niether will crawl out. When one tries to climb out, the other will pull it down. So it is with people with whom we surround ourselves. Negative people pull us down. If the subject regularly cannot be changed to a more positive flow when talking with your friends, it is time to loosen their grip on you.