Can I Fix It?

  • Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
  • Series: Dear Rosa

Are you one of those who believe if you work hard enough toward a personal problem you can fix it? Some research indicates, for example, 35% of marital issues will not change. (Gottman, If in fact this research is true, the axiom: “let go and let God” makes sense. Ramming at a marriage or other problem (the same way) over and over and over again does not help, is hard on you, and is hard on those you care about.