Can I Fix It?
- Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
- Series: Dear Rosa
Are you one of those who believe if you work hard enough toward a personal problem you can fix it? Some research indicates, for example, 35% of marital issues will not change. (Gottman, et.al.) If in fact this research is true, the axiom: “let go and let God” makes sense. Ramming at a marriage or other problem (the same way) over and over and over again does not help, is hard on you, and is hard on those you care about.
