Articles
Marriage
Conflict and the Call to Bless
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
The desire for revenge is within each one of us in the face of hurtful or offensive behavior. It is our way of saying we are not the villains. God has called us to bless one a nother. Blessing one another requires a cessation of treating others as if they are always the villains. In doing so, we open the door to receiving God's intended blessing towards us.
Marital Transitions: Parting the Fearful Waters
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
Three steps to finding marital stability in the midst of change
Trauma Happens To Competent Healthy People
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Trauma causes a reaction in people. That reaction is physical because the brain is signaling the body to do something. This is true with natural disasters like floods and tornadoes as well as fighting or past trauma in relationships. What this feels like and how this affects a marital relationship is discussed in this article as well as the beginnings of what to do.
Lack of Progress in Counseling
A "Dear Rosa" question and answer regarding concern about receiving help, the resistance involved and setting goals.
Martha and Phil
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Martha and Phil are like many couples who feel confused as to why their relationship is not better than it is. Read on as you discover some core shifts in behavior and thought that will help increase their ability to relate intimately and honestly.
Marriage Relationships: Strengthening the Bond thru God's Love
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
A couple's journey from blaming each other to helping each other
Moving From Shame To Respect
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Moving away from a sense of shame to self respect is very important to our mental and even physical health. Shame means to operate out of a "down deep" sense of not being good enough or that something is very wrong with us. This article gives great guidelines for healthy ways that combat a shame based way of living.
One of the Worst Things Parents Do: Putting the Marriage Last
Suzan Myhre, M.S.S.W., LICSW, LPC
This article explores the drawbacks of "putting the marriage last" in the list of family priorities.
Marital Disloyalty
Suzan Myhre, M.S.S.W., LICSW, LPC
This article addresses the process of how marital disloyalty begins or continues.
Attributes of a Successful Marriage
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
This article lists 15 keys to a successful marriage, including the habit of forgiveness, letting go of mocking and contempt when under duress, and rehearsing the good rather than the “bad” about the other.
Using Mindfulness to Keep Relationships Healthy
Whitney Stager, M.S.
Insights and tips are provided on how use mindfulness to be attentive to others feelings, as well as your own, in everyday experiences, to help strengthen your relationship.
Validation is Not Agreement
Suzan Myhre, M.S.S.W., LICSW, LPC
This article describes the difference between validating another person's communication and agreeing with it. Examples are given.
Different Culture, Equal Honor: Viewpoints on Shame
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
Family and individual rituals can look different, but are equally valued by God. Article shows how to bring sensitivity and honor to these rituals, when culture or economic and social status are different between people.
Answering Jesus' Call
Whitney Stager, M.S.
This article helps the reader make decisions about when it is important to act on Jesus' call and to be open to His timing.
Respect in Families
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
There are three foundational principles that make respect in families happen. Following these principles may be challenging but are also an expression of our commitment to following the examples laid before us by the Lord. In part one, respect is defined and a brief look at grandiosity is taken.
Suggestions For Clarity In Relationships
Author Unknown, Edited by Brenda Spina, M.S.,LMFT, LPC
This handout provides a list of specific response one can use when behavior in relationship becomes intrusive or offensive.
Why Giving is Better Than Receiving
Whitney Stager, M.S.
Learning how to give without expectation will help to strengthen and revitalize your relationship with others and with God.
Family
Answering Jesus' Call
Whitney Stager, M.S.
This article helps the reader make decisions about when it is important to act on Jesus' call and to be open to His timing.
What Happens When We Measure Ourselves With Each Other
Suzan Myhre, M.S.S.W., LICSW, LPC
This article looks at the phrase "It's not fair!" when people measure themselves with others and what the outcome is for the individual and relationship.
Different Culture, Equal Honor: Viewpoints on Shame
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
Family and individual rituals can look different, but are equally valued by God. Article shows how to bring sensitivity and honor to these rituals, when culture or economic and social status are different between people.
Healing at Christmas
Suzan Myhre, M.S.S.W., LICSW, LPC
This article describes the decisions we all have when entering the holidays. We can choose to stop "the war" in our relationships, to enter a time of peace.
The Third Step in the Reconciliation Process
Suzan Myhre, M.S.S.W., LICSW, LPC
This article describes the five steps in the process of reconciliation and focuses in detail on the third step.
Validation is Not Agreement
Suzan Myhre, M.S.S.W., LICSW, LPC
This article describes the difference between validating another person's communication and agreeing with it. Examples are given.
Ten Ways to "Train Up A Child"
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Parenting is hard. Raising children in today's world is a juggling act for most people when trying to do a good job of applying God’s word."Ten Ways…"gives a real map of behavior for parents to follow as they seek to be a good parent. The admonition to "raise up a child in the way he should go and when he is old he will not depart from it" is fleshed out in this article in practical and moment by moment ways.
Behaviors That Inhibit Clarity in Relationships
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC, Welash-Desjardings
Behaviors and thoughts that inhibit relationships
Memories: Our Past, Our Present, and Our Future
Daniel Lange, M.S.W., LCSW
Memories present a consistent history to what yiou decide is true of you
Respect in Families
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
There are three foundational principles that make respect in families happen. Following these principles may be challenging but are also an expression of our commitment to following the examples laid before us by the Lord. In part one, respect is defined and a brief look at grandiosity is taken.
Escaping the Role of Scapegoat
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
A vignette portraying a family scapegoat moving from cooperating with the role to rejecting the role
Taking Care of Yourself Over Holidays After a Loss
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
After the death of a loved one, various holidays are difficult, especially Christmas. Here are specific ideas for moving through any holiday with gentleness toward yourself and your situation.
Mocking In Families
A "Dear Rosa" question and answer regarding the shamed based communication and its impact on family members.
Forgiveness in the New Year
Whitney Stager, M.S.
The process of forgiveness, tips on inviting Jesus into the journey of forgiveness, as well as the forgiveness of self and others are discussed in this article.
Using Mindfulness to Keep Relationships Healthy
Whitney Stager, M.S.
Insights and tips are provided on how use mindfulness to be attentive to others feelings, as well as your own, in everyday experiences, to help strengthen your relationship.
A Parent’s Guide To Minimizing Sibling Rivalry
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Although sibling rivalry exists in virtually every family, parents can be proactive in helping to minimize sibling rivalry and helping children develop positive life long relationships with their siblings.
Just Right: A Christmas Memory
Whitney Stager, M.S.
A story of a family tradition to warm your heart and a reminder that family traditions help build memories that last a lifetime.
Conflict and the Call to Bless
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
The desire for revenge is within each one of us in the face of hurtful or offensive behavior. It is our way of saying we are not the villains. God has called us to bless one a nother. Blessing one another requires a cessation of treating others as if they are always the villains. In doing so, we open the door to receiving God's intended blessing towards us.
Elderly and Families: Intergenerational Respect and Love
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
Suggestions on how family members can bring emotional, practical, and spiritual support to older loved ones
Sabotaging Love
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Many experiences of being shamed for one's thoughts and feelings create the idea that one can search for but never find love. God's promise is that He gives us power, love, and sound thinking as we walk with Him.
The Walk of Intimacy
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
We need intimacy. Defining what intimacy is and allowing God to increase our ability to give and receive intimacy aids each of us in our growth process. This article includes and exercise for all to identify possible underlying assumptions that may inhibit and increase the potential for intimacy.
The Look of God
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
The power of a look. When someone looks at a nother's face they see the inner thoughts or feelings of that person. What do people see when they look at our faces?
Balancing Power and Position
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Using the life of Hagar as an example, we can discover how easily the balance of power and position in relationships can become unbalanced.
Growing Up in Christ
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Maturity takes time to develop in all of us. Obvious, I know, however we can identify particular attitudes and behaviors that help us identify how we are progressing in our walk with the Lord and with others.
Clarity of Thought in Relationships
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
There are various fears and concerns that feed behaviors not helpful in our relationships with one another. Specific guidelines are available to aid us in our n eed for clarity of thought and behavior as we seek to experience and provide healthy styles of interacting.
Character, Grace and Relationships
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Paul's honesty about his core nature and the working of G od's grace gives each of us hope in our ability to love one another. It is in the acknowledgement of our sin that we become better equipped to love one another.
Abundant Attachment with God and Others
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
Illustrates how parents and spouses can use Jesus' words from the Gospel of John for healthy attachment
Christmas Inspirations
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
What do the Bethlehem manger and a brother dying of AIDS have in common? Article depicts how life-giving responses in difficult circumstances can bring hope and encouragement.
Advent Traditions
Whitney Stager, M.S.
This article provides many ideas to help you and your family celebrate Advent - with special ways to prepare your hearts and minds for the coming of the Christmas season.
Changing Our Hearts by Changing Our Minds
Whitney Stager, M.S.
We can take the pressure off others to change by focusing on our own issues, because the only person we can really change is ourselves.
Fruit of the Spirit: Tips to Increase Your Daily Servings
Whitney Stager, M.S.
Tips on how to incorporate the fruits of the spirit into your daily life to keep you (and your loved ones) healthy and happy.
Perfectionism: A Wolf in Sheep's Clothing
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Perfectionism is harsh and demanding. However,the Lord does not require it.
Overcoming the Role of Family Hero
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
A vignette portraying common characteristics of the family hero
Family Relationships: It's Not About Winning and Losing
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
What family relationships are not about
Characteristics of a Healthy Family
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Helpful guides to creating a healthy family
Family Roles: Assigned and Assumed
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
The powerful impact of family role assignments and assumptions
Families and Transition
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
Illustrates how Jesus can help families survive and thrive in times of change and transition.
Simplicity in a Complex World
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
Money, possessions, and success can inhibit our desire to prioritize loving God and one another. Article addresses managing earthly things with eternal treasures.
Family Systems and Generational Bondage
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
Article describes how past generational patterns can influence current family functioning, and how God can equip us in healthy family functioning.
Grief and Changes
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
Change within a family life cycle can bring feelings of grief and loss. Article lists six ways to weather the storms of family changes.
Friendship
Answering Jesus' Call
Whitney Stager, M.S.
This article helps the reader make decisions about when it is important to act on Jesus' call and to be open to His timing.
Different Culture, Equal Honor: Viewpoints on Shame
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
Family and individual rituals can look different, but are equally valued by God. Article shows how to bring sensitivity and honor to these rituals, when culture or economic and social status are different between people.
Validation is Not Agreement
Suzan Myhre, M.S.S.W., LICSW, LPC
This article describes the difference between validating another person's communication and agreeing with it. Examples are given.
Using Mindfulness to Keep Relationships Healthy
Whitney Stager, M.S.
Insights and tips are provided on how use mindfulness to be attentive to others feelings, as well as your own, in everyday experiences, to help strengthen your relationship.
Honesty
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Deciding to be honest is only the beginning of living an honest life. c onsciously choosing to not deceive is an ongoing journey that challenges the reality of who we are and where belonging begins.
Respect in Families
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
There are three foundational principles that make respect in families happen. Following these principles may be challenging but are also an expression of our commitment to following the examples laid before us by the Lord. In part one, respect is defined and a brief look at grandiosity is taken.
Humor and Perversity
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Humor in our culture has taken a sarcastic, demeaning turn. Learning to communicate from our hear with wisdom is different than communicating humor with respect for another. God's view of this type of humor is discussed
Behaviors That Inhibit Clarity in Relationships
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC, Welash-Desjardings
Behaviors and thoughts that inhibit relationships
10 Tips For Solving Problems
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Listed are ten simple yet challenging factors to remember when attempting to bring a difficult conversation to a calmer level. Both parties, working in this manner, may be able to move towards increased understanding of one another and look for ways to have both of you to have the things you value respected.
Suggestions For Clarity In Relationships
Author Unknown, Edited by Brenda Spina, M.S.,LMFT, LPC
This handout provides a list of specific response one can use when behavior in relationship becomes intrusive or offensive.
Singles
Suggestions For Clarity In Relationships
Author Unknown, Edited by Brenda Spina, M.S.,LMFT, LPC
This handout provides a list of specific response one can use when behavior in relationship becomes intrusive or offensive.
Who I Am In Christ
Author Unknown, Edited by Brenda Spina, M.S.,LMFT, LPC
Knowing how God sees us and what we have available with Him is important in the developmental process of being His child. What follows are scriptures that identify who we are, what we have, and the things we can do when we believe the truth of His Word.
Different Culture, Equal Honor: Viewpoints on Shame
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
Family and individual rituals can look different, but are equally valued by God. Article shows how to bring sensitivity and honor to these rituals, when culture or economic and social status are different between people.
Answering Jesus' Call
Whitney Stager, M.S.
This article helps the reader make decisions about when it is important to act on Jesus' call and to be open to His timing.
Broadcasts
Marriage
Why Women Crash & Men Get Frustrated #3 of 4, #2301
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Ever get to the end of your "emotional rope"? Discussed here are some of the dynamics that happen when women continue to be physically and emotionally overwhelmed.
Closeness and Distance in Marriage #2 of 3, #3250
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Closeness and distance in the marital relationship is one of the fundamental tasks of the couple. These programs normalize the fluctuations of desire for closeness, discuss the quickness of judgement toward one another, and lay out some steps for the journey back towards one another.
Closeness and Distance in Marriage #1 of 3, #3249
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Closeness and distance in the marital relationship is one of the fundamental tasks of the couple. These programs normalize the fluctuations of desire for closeness, discuss the quickness of the judgement toward one another, and lays out some steps for the journey back towards one another.
If You Really Loved Me #3 of 3, #3163
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
In this three part series, Lynda Savage covers the impossible logic that lies beneath couples' thinking. In these programs the confusion that follows this thinking is unraveled.
If You Really Loved Me #2 of 3, #3162
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
In this three part series, Lynda Savage covers the impossible logic that lies beneath couples' thinking. In these programs the confusion that follows this thinking is unraveled.
If You Really Loved Me #1 of 3, #3161
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
This three part series Lynda Savage covers the impossible logic that lies beneath couples' thinking. In these programs the confusion that follows this thinking is unraveled.
Closeness and Distance in Marriage #3 of 3, #3251
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Closeness and distance in the marital relationship is one of the fundamental tasks of the couple. These programs normalize the fluctuations of desire for closeness, discuss the quickness of judgement toward one another, and lay out some steps for the journey back towards one another.
Affairs #2 of 2, #3128
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Lynda presents and discusses the steps towards an affair and the steps out of an affair toward reconciliation.
Affairs #1 of 2, #3127
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Lynda, using an example she has written, discusses the factors that contribute to an affair.
Wives Who Lift Up Their Husbands #3092
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Lynda discusses the impact of wives who speak of their husbands strengths.
Why Men Pull Away #1 of 4, #2295
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
The age old discussion of gender differences rises once again. Communication needs differ between the genders and thus we have times when one wants to talk and one does not. Discussed are the possible triggers that are touched in men.
Why Men Pull Away #2 of 4, #2296
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
The age old discussion of gender differences arises once again. The differences in needs regarding communication is discussed along with possible factors that trigger men pulling away from women.
Why Men Pull Away #3 of 4, #2297
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
The age old discussion of gender differences rises once again. Discussed are the differences in needs for communication and possible triggers that cause men to pull away.
Why Men Pull Away #4 of 4, #2298
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
The age old discussion of gender differences rises once again. Lynda and Paul wrap up the series discussing possible triggers as to why men pull away from women.
Why Women Crash & Men Get Frustrated #1 of 3, #2299
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Ever come to the end of your "emotional rope"? Discussed here are some of the ongoing dynamics that take place when women continue to be physically and emotionally overwhelmed.
Why Women Crash & Men Get Frustrated #2 of 3, #2300
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Ever get to the end of your "emotional rope"? Discussed here are some of the dynamics of what happens when women continue to be physically and emotionally overwhelmed.
Couple Styles: Attributes of Successful Marriage, Part 4 of 4, #673
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
This program discusses the necessity of conflict in successful marriages as well as outlines other attributes to look for.
Couples Styles: Attributes of Positive Functional Couples, Part 3 of 4, #672
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Outlined in the program are guidelines for what promotes a well functioning relationship in marriage
Double Binds: Loving and Being Alone #613
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Loving, togetherness and being alone. Discussion focuses on double binds in the marital relationship.
Expressing Appreciation #571
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Who doesn't like to be appreciated? This program presents ways to properly express appreciation in a relationship.
Expressing Feelings #569
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
One of the challenges of any relationship is knowing how to express what it is we think and feel. Discussed in this program is the "how to's" of putting our feelings and wants into words.
Marriage - Agreements, Wants and Changes #568
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
The marital relationship has a way of challenging every aspect of our personhood. This programs discusses how to discuss the challenges of changing or accepting the differences between two people.
Family Life of Jacob: Rachel & Her Dependence on Jacob #623
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Describing the relationship between Jacob and Rachel practical applications are made for our life today.
Family Life of Jacob: Background of His Marriages #622
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Dynamics explored around the marriage of Jacob to wives Leah and Rachel
Couples Styles: Cycle of Anger, Part 2 of 4 #671
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Discussed is the cycle of anger and what the couple can do about surfacing conflict.
Couples Styles, Part 1 of 4 #670
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Couples are bonded to one another in different ways. The different styles couples have and how they are bonded is discussed.
Family
Rituals And Their Meaning #3 of 4, #2158
Suzan Myhre, M.S.S.W., LICSW, LPC
This program discusses how the four types of rituals work and their various styles.
Realistic Expectations For Stepfamilies #3 of 3, #3204
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Brenda Spina and Paul Cameron discuss seven expectations that can help stepfamilies in the blending process. Each realistic expectation is matched with its unrealistic counter part.
When Parents Fight, #2 of 2, 3276
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
The parents are the executives of the family and from their marital relationship all the other relationships in the family are derived. When parents have the habit of fighting with each other fiercely or frequently, children may be negatively impacted. In this series of broadcasts, Christine and Lynda discuss the impact and offer suggestions to help parents.
Families and Forgiveness #5 of 5, #2140
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
We must forgive to be forgiven. This programs reviews the steps of forgivenss.
Rituals And Their Meaning #1 of 4, #2156
Suzan Myhre, M.S.S.W., LICSW, LPC
This program discusses the meaning of rituals.
Rituals And Their Meaning #2 of 4, #2157
Suzan Myhre, M.S.S.W., LICSW, LPC
The four types of rituals and their key elements are discussed.
Rituals And Their Meaning #4 of 4, #2159
Suzan Myhre, M.S.S.W., LICSW, LPC
This program discusses that importance of rituals in healing.
Uncomfortable Sides #3086
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Based on her book, "Proverbs For The Family", Lynda discusses how adult behavior shows up in children.
Realistic Expectations For Stepfamilies #1 of 3, #3202
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Brenda Spina and Paul Cameron discuss seven expectations that can help stepfamilies in the blending process. Each realistic expectation is matched with its matched with its unrealistic counter part.
Reclaim the Sabbath #3246
Whitney Stager, M.S.
Lynda and Whitney provide various tips to help you and your family reclaim the Sabbath. Also discussed are ways to increase quality family time spent together and how to build rituals and traditions into everyday family life.
When Parents Fight, #1 of 2, #3275
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
The parents are the executives of the family and from their marital relationship all the other relationships in the family are derived. When parents have the habit of fighting with each other fiercely or frequently, children may be negatively impacted. In this series of broadcasts, Christine and Lynda discuss the impact and offer suggestions to help parents.
Realistic Expectations For Stepfamilies #2 of 3, #3203
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Brenda Spina and Paul Cameron discuss seven expectations that can help stepfamilies in the blending process. Each realistic expectation is matched with its unrealistic counter part.
Parents Modeling Faith #1 of 2, #3255
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Brenda Spina and Paul Cameron discuss the story found in II Kings 4:1-7 through the eyes of a child. Outline are simple yet challenging steps for parents in modeling the importance of having faith in God.
Rituals in Blended Families #2 of 2, #3058
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
These programs will explore the place that tradition and ritual plays in a blended family's life and how to better facilitate changes that inevitably occur in this area.
Rituals in Blended Families #1 of 2, #3057
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
These programs will explore the place that tradition and ritual plays in a blended family's life and how to better facilitate changes that inevitable occur in this area.
Three Styles of Families #3 of 3, #3056
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
This series of programs discusses the three styles of families: Parent Centered Family, Child Centered Family, and God Center Family.
Three Styles of Families #2 of 3, #3055
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
This series of programs discusses the three styles of families: Parent Centered Family, Child Centered Family, and God Centered Family.
Three Styles of Families #1 of 3, #3054
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
This series of programs discusses the three styles of families: Parent Centered Family, Child Centered Family and God Centered Family.
Parents Modeling Faith #2 of 2, #3256
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Brenda Spina and Paul Cameron discuss the story found in II Kings 4:1-7 through the eyes of a child. Outlined are simple yet challenging steps for parents in modeling the importance of having faith in God.
Children Raising Children #3097
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Often older siblings are asked to step in and care for those younger in the family. Long-term child care by a sibling has a way of brining out the tyrant in everyone.
Families and Forgiveness #4 of 5, #2139
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
This program helps us to tenderly look at the past and see pain and parental sacrifice in a new light.
Families and Forgiveness #3 of 5, #2138
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Forgiveness takes a lot of work, but the outcome of forgiveness is freedom.
It's Never Enough #1 of 2, #2065
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
People get discouraged in relationships when after trying all they k now to do, their loved one still seems unhappy.
How Does Alcoholism Affect Relationships and Intimacy #2 of 2, #1946
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Lynda and Paul take a few minutes to discuss the altered development of intimacy and relationships in the alcoholic family.
How Does Alcoholism Affect Siblings #1 of 2, #1945
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
There is a unique experience among the siblings in the family of an alcoholic that is addressed in this program. Along with this information is a discussion regarding the grief reaction each child may have.
Healthy Families: What Is A Troubled Family #2 of 2, #1623
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Contrasted here are the different characteristics associated with both healthy and unhealthy families.
Authority and Structure in God's Family and Kingdom #1 of 3, #1243
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Discussion focuses on defining what authority and structure in God's family and kingdom means.
Success and Family Loyalty #4 of 4, #1143
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
The discussion of family loyalties wraps up by taking a look at the impact family loyalties have on the marital relationship.
Family Life of Jacob: His Family & Coalitions #621
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Taking a look at the family life of Jacob and lessons to learn for our time.
Family Life of Jacob: Background of His Marriages #622
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Dynamics explored around the marriage of Jacob to wives Leah and Rachel
Family Life of Jacob: Leah's Disposition #624
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Continuing discussion of Jacob's family life focusing on Leah and the disposition she brought to the situation.
Family Systems #1 of 3, #729
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Why do family systems exist and what are they? Join us as we talk about limits and boundaries of the family system and how they are formed.
Success and Family Loyalty #3 of 4, #1142
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
One of the challenges faced when looking at loyalty to the family is the following questions: Do you dare go beyond the success your parents achieved? How obligated are you to the family of origin parameters?
Success and Family Loyalty #2 of 4, #1141
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Where should your loyalties be? Sometimes if feels unclear whether one is to be loyal to one's family of origin or to the marriage or...?
Success and Family Loyalty #1 of 4, #1140
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Every family has a set of expectations that they put on one another about how each person is to be. Sometimes those loyalties may feel inhibiting in one's growth.
Family Systems: Boundaries and Atmosphere #3 of 3, #731
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Discussing families and the development of boundaries would not be complete without taking a look at how boundaries change and the factors that influence this change.
It's Never Enough #2 of 2, #2066
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
People get discouraged in relationships when after trying all they know to do, their loved one still seems unhappy.
Characteristics of Healthy Families #1 of 4, #2067
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
The first four points 13 are covered in this program.
Families and Forgiveness #2 of 5, #2137
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
There are relational injustices within our families at times. Asking for God's help in the stages of forgiveness.
Characteristics of a Healthy Family #2 of 2, #3045
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Healthy families are those who meet the needs of its individual family members. Characteristics similar to all healthy families continues in this program.
Characteristics of a Healthy Family #1 of 2, #3044
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
The healthier the family is the more the needs of the family members are met. Characteristics similar to families considered healthy are presented and discussed.
Teamwork in Tasks and Ministry #2 of 2, #3036
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
Sometimes tasks and ministries both in and out of the home can seem overwhelming. Scripture gives us spiritual and practical principles in developing teamwork and decreasing anxiety in tasks.
Teamwork in Tasks and Ministry #1 of 2, #3035
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
Sometimes tasks and ministries both in and out of the home can seem overwhelming. Scripture gives us spiritual and practical principles in developing teamwork and decreasing anxiety in tasks.
Families and Forgiveness #1 of 5, #2136
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
We learn about forgiveness and whether we are loved from our families. Why are family relationships sometimes so painful.
Feeling Appreciated #570
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Giving and receiving in relationships is basic to the relationships foundation. Learning to give without expecting an appreciative response is part of the process of loving as Christ loves. Discussed is how to show appreciation and how it affects relationships.
Characteristics of Healthy Families #4 of 4, #2070
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Lynda and Paul wrap up the series with words of encouragement for families to remember.
Family Systems: Family Boundaries #2 of 3, #730
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
This program continues the discussion of limits and boundaries in the family system and how they are formed.
Characteristics of Healthy Families #2 of 4, #2068
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Points 5-9 of 13 characteristics are discussed by Lynda and Paul.
Communication, Criticism & Compliments #610
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Discussion of how we respond to criticism or compliments.
Feelings of Success #573
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Comparing two different people to one another is a tenuous choice of behavior. Discussed in this program is the issue of comparison and its effects on relationships.
Characteristics of Healthy Families #3 of 4, #2069
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
The last four points, 10 - 13 are explored in this series discussing the characteristics of healthy families.
Friendship
Understanding Yourself #611
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Understanding the different situations that can be double binding.
How To Listen: Methods of Sending/ Receiving Messages #1 of 6, #3155
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Listening is the key to communication. The receiver of a message has several options. A commitment to understanding what the speaker is saying whether or not you agree through to helping the speaker sort through feelings and choices is covered in this helpful series.
Honesty and Defenses #3 of 3, #3197
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Three programs designed to identify and discuss three relational defenses that keep us from being emotionally honest.
I Can't Express Feelings #574
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Paul and Lynda discuss how to speak to and share with another person without blaming them.
Honesty and Defenses #2 of 3, #3196
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Three programs designed to identify and discuss three relational defenses that keep us from being emotionally honest.
Honesty and Defenses #1 of 3, #3195
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Three programs designed to identify and discuss three relational defenses that keep us from being emotionally honest.
How To Listen: Overall Listening Tips #6 of 6, #3160
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Listening is the key to communication. The receiver of a message has several options. A commitment to understanding what the speaker is saying whether or not you agree through to helping the speaker sort through feelings and choices is covered in this helpful series.
People Need To Know They Belong #3090
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Belonging is key for a person's sense of existence. This important reality is discussed in detail.
Steps To Personal Responsibility #1 of 3, #3102
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Personal responsibility is not easily supported in our culture today. These three programs outline the six steps needed to move toward taking responsibility for the attitudes, behaviors and choices we make.
Steps To Personal Responsibility #2 of 3, #3103
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Scripture supports people taking responsibility for their choices. Phillipians states we are to look out for our own interests and the interests of others. This programs discusses the move towards taking responsibility.
Steps To Personal Responsibility #3 of 3, #3104
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Scriptures supports people taking responsibility for their choices. Phillipians states we are to look out for our own interests and the interests of others. Discussed is the move towards taking responsibility.
Walking Towards Intimacy #1 of 4, #3151
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Brenda Spina and Phil Pannier discuss the beginnings of and elements of developing intimacy. Intimacy is necessary and is reflective of our relationship to the Lord.
Walking Towards Intimacy #2 of 4, #3152
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Brenda Spina and Phil Pannier discuss the beginnings of and the elements of developing intimacy. Intimacy is necessary and is reflective of our relationship to the Lord.
Walking Towards Intimacy #3 of 4, #3153
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Brenda Spina and Phil Pannier discuss the beginnings of and the elements of developing intimacy. Intimacy is necessary and is reflective of our relationship to the Lord.
Walking Towards Intimacy #4 of 4, #3154
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Brenda Spina and Phil Pannier discuss the beginnings of and elements of developing intimacy. Intimacy is necessary and is reflective of our relationship to the Lord.
How To Listen: Difficulties of the Listener #2 of 6, #3156
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Listening is the key to communication. The receiver of the message has several options. A commitment to understanding what the speaker is saying whether or not you agree through to helping the speaker sort through feelings and choices is covered in this helpful series.
How To Listen: Three Basic Listening Modes #3 of 6, #3157
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Listen is the key to communication. The receiver of a message has several options. A commitment to understanding what the speaker is saying whether or not you agree through to helping the speaker sort through feelings and choices is covered in this helpful series.
How To Listen: Levels of Communication #4 of 6, #3158
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Listening is the key to communication. The receiver of a message has several options. A commitment to understanding what the speaker is saying whether or not you agree through to helping the speaker sort through feelings and choices is covered in this helpful series.
How To Listen: Choosing the Listening Track #5 of 6, #3159
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Listening is the key to communication. The receiver of a message has several options. A commitment to understanding what the speaker is saying whether or not you agree through to helping the speaker sort through feelings and choices is covered in this helpful series.
Enjoying People As They Are #3088
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
"Proverbs For the Family" is filled with nuggets of information designed to strengthen and clarify relationships. In this program the importance of enjoying your loved ones in the here and now is explored.
