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Broadcasts about Conflict

Read My Mind #566

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

This series of programs presents and discusses assumptions we all may make that contribute to relationships experiencing difficulty

Read My Mind #567

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

The second program in a series of nine, Lynda presents ways in which individuals may improve their speaking and listening skills to make our thoughts clear.

Marriage - Agreements, Wants and Changes #568

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

The marital relationship has a way of challenging every aspect of our personhood. This programs discusses how to discuss the challenges of changing or accepting the differences between two people.

Expressing Feelings #569

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

One of the challenges of any relationship is knowing how to express what it is we think and feel. Discussed in this program is the "how to's" of putting our feelings and wants into words.

Giving and receiving in relationships is basic to the relationships foundation. Learning to give without expecting an appreciative response is part of the process of loving as Christ loves. Discussed is how to show appreciation and how it affects relationships.

Expressing Appreciation #571

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

Who doesn't like to be appreciated? This program presents ways to properly express appreciation in a relationship.

Agreeing to Disagree #572

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

This program reminds us that each individual does not have the entire picture of a situation and how this needs to be remembered during a discussion.

Feelings of Success #573

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

Comparing two different people to one another is a tenuous choice of behavior. Discussed in this program is the issue of comparison and its effects on relationships.

I Can't Express Feelings #574

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

Paul and Lynda discuss how to speak to and share with another person without blaming them.

Communication, Criticism & Compliments #610

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

Discussion of how we respond to criticism or compliments.

Double Binds: Loving and Being Alone #613

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

Loving, togetherness and being alone. Discussion focuses on double binds in the marital relationship.

Family Life of Jacob: His Family & Coalitions #621

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

Taking a look at the family life of Jacob and lessons to learn for our time.

Family Life of Jacob: Background of His Marriages #622

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

Dynamics explored around the marriage of Jacob to wives Leah and Rachel

Family Life of Jacob: Leah's Disposition #624

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

Continuing discussion of Jacob's family life focusing on Leah and the disposition she brought to the situation.

Couples Styles: Cycle of Anger, Part 2 of 4 #671

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

Discussed is the cycle of anger and what the couple can do about surfacing conflict.

Couples Styles: Attributes of Positive Functional Couples, Part 3 of 4, #672

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

Outlined in the program are guidelines for what promotes a well functioning relationship in marriage

Couple Styles: Attributes of Successful Marriage, Part 4 of 4, #673

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

This program discusses the necessity of conflict in successful marriages as well as outlines other attributes to look for.

Learning How To Fight Fair #1 of 4, #689

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

Conflict is never easy to get through. However, the nature of disagreements and arguments in marriage is important to understand. Listen and see what you can learn.

Learning How To Fight Fair #2 of 4, #690

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

Yes, conflict does not have to end up abusive. Discussed today is setting a goal to find a solution.

Learning How To Fight Fair, #3 of 4, #691

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

A key to healthy conflict is taking responsibility for yourself, how you feel, how you think, and your ideas.

Learning How To Fight Fair #4 or 4, #692

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

Let's take a look at understanding the reason why you are fighting and how does fighting fit in?

The Need To Win: A Look at Winning #1 of 4, #695

Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC

How do you feel when you think you might lose a fight? Join us as we take a look at our 'need' to win.

The Need To Win: What's It About? #2 of 4, #696

Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC

As we continue discussion, we discover underlying fears and assumptions that inhibit the resolution of conflict.

The Need To Win: God Overcomes It #3 of 4, #697

Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC

Scripture outlines practical ways in which we can overcome the inner battles that keep us locked into the need to win.

The Need To Win: God's Way #4 of 4, #698

Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC

Discouraged about your own competitiveness? Tune in and be encouraged! God has your best in mind.

Family Systems #1 of 3, #729

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

Why do family systems exist and what are they? Join us as we talk about limits and boundaries of the family system and how they are formed.

Family Systems: Family Boundaries #2 of 3, #730

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

This program continues the discussion of limits and boundaries in the family system and how they are formed.

Family Systems: Boundaries and Atmosphere #3 of 3, #731

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

Discussing families and the development of boundaries would not be complete without taking a look at how boundaries change and the factors that influence this change.

What Makes Good One on One Relationships: Enjoyment #3 or 4, #778

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

Join Lynda and Paul as they discuss enjoying time together with someone who is special to you.

What Makes Good One on One Relationships: Wrap Up #4 of 4, #779

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

Lynda and Paul take time to recap the important points of discussion and wrap up the series.

Characteristics of Healthy Families #1 of 4, #2067

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

The first four points 13 are covered in this program.

Characteristics of Healthy Families #2 of 4, #2068

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

Points 5-9 of 13 characteristics are discussed by Lynda and Paul.

Characteristics of Healthy Families #3 of 4, #2069

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

The last four points, 10 - 13 are explored in this series discussing the characteristics of healthy families.

Characteristics of Healthy Families #4 of 4, #2070

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

Lynda and Paul wrap up the series with words of encouragement for families to remember.

Boundaries: Being Someone You're Not #1 of 2, #2280

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

How important is it really to be honest and reveal your own thoughts or reactions? How does this affect your relationship with others? Let's take a look at what healthy limits look like.

Boundaries: Murder By Mouth #2 of 2, #2281

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

Gossip can be destructive to any relationship and the trust needed to maintain a sense of connectedness. This program takes a look at gossip, its impact on the victim of gossip both at work and at home.

When Couples Fight #1 of 3, #2333

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

As you may know, negotiating contracts with each other is not always a peaceful process. Whether we fight overly or covertly the tendency is to diminish one another. Finding courage with the help of God to change the fighting cycle is crucial. God uses our arguments with others to change and grow us up.

When Couples Fight #2 of 3, #2334

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

As you may know, negotiating contracts with each other is not always a peaceful process. Disagreements, whether overt or covert, can end up in diminishment of one another. Finding courage with the help of God to change the fighting cycle is crucial. God uses our arguments with others to change and grow us up.

When Couples Fight #3 of 3, #2335

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

As you may know, negotiating contract with each other is not always a peaceful process. Whether it is overtly or covertly arguing, we tend to diminish one another. Finding Courage with the help of God to change the fighting cycle is crucial. God uses our arguments with others to change and grow us up.

There's A Tyrant In The House #1 of 2, #2347

Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC

Conflict is not something easily understood yet is a natural part of our intimate relationships. Lynda and Brenda discuss the parts of our personality that come out when we're angry and tired. Specific helps are provided in learning to deal with these parts of our personality.

There's A Tyrant In The House #2 of 2, #2348

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

Conflict, although a natural part of intimate relationships, is not always easy to make sense of. The parts of our personality that come out when we are angry or tired need help and care. Listen as these helps are discussed.

But I'm The Nice One #1 of 2, #2349

Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC

As you may know, there is a big difference between acting nice and being nice. Is it all an act? The nurturance of honesty in our inward parts with God's help is what will help us know.

But I'm The Nice One #2 of 2, #2350

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

Being nice and acting nice are two different things. Being nice, at times, means being honest. Have you ever wondered what may happen when the nice one and the honest one connect?

Living Peaceably #1 of 2, #3009

Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC

Living peaceably may not mean finding solutions as much as managing the differences that are between two people.

Living Peaceably #2 of 2, #3013

Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC

Living peaceably may not mean finding solutions as much as managing differences that exist between two people.

Great Love Equals Great Responsibility #3 of 5, #3029

Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC

Blame can be destructive to any relationship. Seeing ourselves and others as God sees us is important in providing unity of purpose as well as avoiding division in the family of God.

Great Love Equals Great Responsibility #4 of 5, #3030

Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC

A continuation of the seven implications regarding our responsibility in relationships

Great Love Equals Great Responsibility #5 of 5, #3031

Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC

The last in a series of five programs regarding responsibility in relationships, a look is taken at the reality that certain aspects of the relationship may not change.

Know Your Enemy: The War We Are In #1 of 3, #3032

Suzan Myhre, M.S.S.W., LICSW, LPC

The battleground of our minds is where we fight our fights! Learn how to identify the strategies the enemy uses to trick you and trap you. AND to fight back with God's help!

Know Your Enemy: The War We Are In #2 of 3, #3033

Suzan Myhre, M.S.S.W., LICSW, LPC

The battleground of our minds is where we fight our fights! Learn to identify the strategies the enemy uses to rick you and trap you. And to fight back with God's help!

Know Your Enemy: The War We Are In #3 of 3, #3034

Suzan Myhre, M.S.S.W., LICSW, LPC

The battleground of our minds is where we fight our fights! Learn how to identify the strategies the enemy uses to trick you and trap you. AND to fight back with God's help?

Children Never Get Over Divorce #3084

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

Based on her book, "Proverbs For The Family", Lynda reveals the real feelings children have when their parents divorce.

God's Timing In Communication #3089

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

There are many types of communication that take place in any given day. Explored here is the importance of God's timing in the use of any style of communication.

Wives Who Lift Up Their Husbands #3092

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

Lynda discusses the impact of wives who speak of their husbands strengths.

The Silent Treatment #3116

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

When people use emotional cut-off with each other, it is the beginning of the end of a relationships unless a reversal of this pattern is sought and practiced. Lynda and Paul discuss the ins and outs of "The Silent Treatment".

What's Behind Anger? #1 of 3, #3172

Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC

Brenda Spina and Paul Cameron discuss the varied emotions that anger may cover along with core expectations we may be operating out of. These emotions often more accurately express our true experience. Also discussed are the positive aspects of anger, normalizing it's existence as well as pointing out ways anger can be helpful.

What's Behind Anger? #2 of 3, #3173

Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC

Brenda Spina and Paul Cameron discuss the varied emotions that anger may cover along with core expectations we may be operating out of. These expectations are often not accurate. Also discussed are the positive aspects of anger, normalizing it's existence as well as pointing out ways anger can be helpful.

What's Behind Anger? #3 of 3, #3174

Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC

Brenda Spina and Paul Cameron discuss the varied emotions that anger may cover along with core expectations we may be operating out of. These expectations often are not accurate. Also discussed the positive aspects of anger, normalizing it's existence as well as pointing out ways anger can be helpful.

Trauma and Triggers in Relationships: Conflicts Born in the Past #1 of 2, #3244

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

Many bumps in the road of relationship turn into major clashes because of past trauma in the history of one or both people. Lynda and Paul discuss this pattern and how to recover peace and calm between the parties involved.

Trauma and Triggers in Relationships: Conflicts Born in the Past #2 of 2, #3245

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

Many bumps in the road of relationships turn into major clashes because of past trauma in the history of one or both people. Lynda and Paul discuss this pattern and how to recover peace and calm between the parties involved.

The Blame Game #1 of 2, #3189

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

Part one of the Blame Game shows how we shrug off responsibilty by using blame. Blaming others or circumstances keeps us bound up to the "wrong" we perceive.

The Blame Game #2 of 2, #3190

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

In part two, stopping blame is the refusal to let yourself complain and find fault. This allows you to have room to seek answers to your situation.