Broadcasts about Conflict
Read My Mind #566
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
This series of programs presents and discusses assumptions we all may make that contribute to relationships experiencing difficulty
Read My Mind #567
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
The second program in a series of nine, Lynda presents ways in which individuals may improve their speaking and listening skills to make our thoughts clear.
Marriage - Agreements, Wants and Changes #568
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
The marital relationship has a way of challenging every aspect of our personhood. This programs discusses how to discuss the challenges of changing or accepting the differences between two people.
Expressing Feelings #569
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
One of the challenges of any relationship is knowing how to express what it is we think and feel. Discussed in this program is the "how to's" of putting our feelings and wants into words.
Feeling Appreciated #570
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Giving and receiving in relationships is basic to the relationships foundation. Learning to give without expecting an appreciative response is part of the process of loving as Christ loves. Discussed is how to show appreciation and how it affects relationships.
Expressing Appreciation #571
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Who doesn't like to be appreciated? This program presents ways to properly express appreciation in a relationship.
Agreeing to Disagree #572
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
This program reminds us that each individual does not have the entire picture of a situation and how this needs to be remembered during a discussion.
Feelings of Success #573
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Comparing two different people to one another is a tenuous choice of behavior. Discussed in this program is the issue of comparison and its effects on relationships.
I Can't Express Feelings #574
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Paul and Lynda discuss how to speak to and share with another person without blaming them.
Communication, Criticism & Compliments #610
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Discussion of how we respond to criticism or compliments.
Double Binds: Loving and Being Alone #613
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Loving, togetherness and being alone. Discussion focuses on double binds in the marital relationship.
Family Life of Jacob: His Family & Coalitions #621
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Taking a look at the family life of Jacob and lessons to learn for our time.
Family Life of Jacob: Background of His Marriages #622
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Dynamics explored around the marriage of Jacob to wives Leah and Rachel
Family Life of Jacob: Leah's Disposition #624
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Continuing discussion of Jacob's family life focusing on Leah and the disposition she brought to the situation.
Couples Styles: Cycle of Anger, Part 2 of 4 #671
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Discussed is the cycle of anger and what the couple can do about surfacing conflict.
Couples Styles: Attributes of Positive Functional Couples, Part 3 of 4, #672
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Outlined in the program are guidelines for what promotes a well functioning relationship in marriage
Couple Styles: Attributes of Successful Marriage, Part 4 of 4, #673
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
This program discusses the necessity of conflict in successful marriages as well as outlines other attributes to look for.
Learning How To Fight Fair #1 of 4, #689
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Conflict is never easy to get through. However, the nature of disagreements and arguments in marriage is important to understand. Listen and see what you can learn.
Learning How To Fight Fair #2 of 4, #690
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Yes, conflict does not have to end up abusive. Discussed today is setting a goal to find a solution.
Learning How To Fight Fair, #3 of 4, #691
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
A key to healthy conflict is taking responsibility for yourself, how you feel, how you think, and your ideas.
Learning How To Fight Fair #4 or 4, #692
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Let's take a look at understanding the reason why you are fighting and how does fighting fit in?
The Need To Win: A Look at Winning #1 of 4, #695
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
How do you feel when you think you might lose a fight? Join us as we take a look at our 'need' to win.
The Need To Win: What's It About? #2 of 4, #696
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
As we continue discussion, we discover underlying fears and assumptions that inhibit the resolution of conflict.
The Need To Win: God Overcomes It #3 of 4, #697
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Scripture outlines practical ways in which we can overcome the inner battles that keep us locked into the need to win.
The Need To Win: God's Way #4 of 4, #698
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Discouraged about your own competitiveness? Tune in and be encouraged! God has your best in mind.
Family Systems #1 of 3, #729
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Why do family systems exist and what are they? Join us as we talk about limits and boundaries of the family system and how they are formed.
Family Systems: Family Boundaries #2 of 3, #730
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
This program continues the discussion of limits and boundaries in the family system and how they are formed.
Family Systems: Boundaries and Atmosphere #3 of 3, #731
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Discussing families and the development of boundaries would not be complete without taking a look at how boundaries change and the factors that influence this change.
What Makes Good One on One Relationships: Enjoyment #3 or 4, #778
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Join Lynda and Paul as they discuss enjoying time together with someone who is special to you.
What Makes Good One on One Relationships: Wrap Up #4 of 4, #779
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Lynda and Paul take time to recap the important points of discussion and wrap up the series.
Characteristics of Healthy Families #1 of 4, #2067
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
The first four points 13 are covered in this program.
Characteristics of Healthy Families #2 of 4, #2068
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Points 5-9 of 13 characteristics are discussed by Lynda and Paul.
Characteristics of Healthy Families #3 of 4, #2069
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
The last four points, 10 - 13 are explored in this series discussing the characteristics of healthy families.
Characteristics of Healthy Families #4 of 4, #2070
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Lynda and Paul wrap up the series with words of encouragement for families to remember.
Boundaries: Being Someone You're Not #1 of 2, #2280
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
How important is it really to be honest and reveal your own thoughts or reactions? How does this affect your relationship with others? Let's take a look at what healthy limits look like.
Boundaries: Murder By Mouth #2 of 2, #2281
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Gossip can be destructive to any relationship and the trust needed to maintain a sense of connectedness. This program takes a look at gossip, its impact on the victim of gossip both at work and at home.
When Couples Fight #1 of 3, #2333
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
As you may know, negotiating contracts with each other is not always a peaceful process. Whether we fight overly or covertly the tendency is to diminish one another. Finding courage with the help of God to change the fighting cycle is crucial. God uses our arguments with others to change and grow us up.
When Couples Fight #2 of 3, #2334
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
As you may know, negotiating contracts with each other is not always a peaceful process. Disagreements, whether overt or covert, can end up in diminishment of one another. Finding courage with the help of God to change the fighting cycle is crucial. God uses our arguments with others to change and grow us up.
When Couples Fight #3 of 3, #2335
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
As you may know, negotiating contract with each other is not always a peaceful process. Whether it is overtly or covertly arguing, we tend to diminish one another. Finding Courage with the help of God to change the fighting cycle is crucial. God uses our arguments with others to change and grow us up.
There's A Tyrant In The House #1 of 2, #2347
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Conflict is not something easily understood yet is a natural part of our intimate relationships. Lynda and Brenda discuss the parts of our personality that come out when we're angry and tired. Specific helps are provided in learning to deal with these parts of our personality.
There's A Tyrant In The House #2 of 2, #2348
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Conflict, although a natural part of intimate relationships, is not always easy to make sense of. The parts of our personality that come out when we are angry or tired need help and care. Listen as these helps are discussed.
But I'm The Nice One #1 of 2, #2349
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
As you may know, there is a big difference between acting nice and being nice. Is it all an act? The nurturance of honesty in our inward parts with God's help is what will help us know.
But I'm The Nice One #2 of 2, #2350
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Being nice and acting nice are two different things. Being nice, at times, means being honest. Have you ever wondered what may happen when the nice one and the honest one connect?
Living Peaceably #1 of 2, #3009
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Living peaceably may not mean finding solutions as much as managing the differences that are between two people.
Living Peaceably #2 of 2, #3013
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Living peaceably may not mean finding solutions as much as managing differences that exist between two people.
Great Love Equals Great Responsibility #3 of 5, #3029
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Blame can be destructive to any relationship. Seeing ourselves and others as God sees us is important in providing unity of purpose as well as avoiding division in the family of God.
Great Love Equals Great Responsibility #4 of 5, #3030
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
A continuation of the seven implications regarding our responsibility in relationships
Great Love Equals Great Responsibility #5 of 5, #3031
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
The last in a series of five programs regarding responsibility in relationships, a look is taken at the reality that certain aspects of the relationship may not change.
Know Your Enemy: The War We Are In #1 of 3, #3032
Suzan Myhre, M.S.S.W., LICSW, LPC
The battleground of our minds is where we fight our fights! Learn how to identify the strategies the enemy uses to trick you and trap you. AND to fight back with God's help!
Know Your Enemy: The War We Are In #2 of 3, #3033
Suzan Myhre, M.S.S.W., LICSW, LPC
The battleground of our minds is where we fight our fights! Learn to identify the strategies the enemy uses to rick you and trap you. And to fight back with God's help!
Know Your Enemy: The War We Are In #3 of 3, #3034
Suzan Myhre, M.S.S.W., LICSW, LPC
The battleground of our minds is where we fight our fights! Learn how to identify the strategies the enemy uses to trick you and trap you. AND to fight back with God's help?
Children Never Get Over Divorce #3084
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Based on her book, "Proverbs For The Family", Lynda reveals the real feelings children have when their parents divorce.
God's Timing In Communication #3089
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
There are many types of communication that take place in any given day. Explored here is the importance of God's timing in the use of any style of communication.
Wives Who Lift Up Their Husbands #3092
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Lynda discusses the impact of wives who speak of their husbands strengths.
The Silent Treatment #3116
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
When people use emotional cut-off with each other, it is the beginning of the end of a relationships unless a reversal of this pattern is sought and practiced. Lynda and Paul discuss the ins and outs of "The Silent Treatment".
What's Behind Anger? #1 of 3, #3172
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Brenda Spina and Paul Cameron discuss the varied emotions that anger may cover along with core expectations we may be operating out of. These emotions often more accurately express our true experience. Also discussed are the positive aspects of anger, normalizing it's existence as well as pointing out ways anger can be helpful.
What's Behind Anger? #2 of 3, #3173
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Brenda Spina and Paul Cameron discuss the varied emotions that anger may cover along with core expectations we may be operating out of. These expectations are often not accurate. Also discussed are the positive aspects of anger, normalizing it's existence as well as pointing out ways anger can be helpful.
What's Behind Anger? #3 of 3, #3174
Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Brenda Spina and Paul Cameron discuss the varied emotions that anger may cover along with core expectations we may be operating out of. These expectations often are not accurate. Also discussed the positive aspects of anger, normalizing it's existence as well as pointing out ways anger can be helpful.
Trauma and Triggers in Relationships: Conflicts Born in the Past #1 of 2, #3244
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Many bumps in the road of relationship turn into major clashes because of past trauma in the history of one or both people. Lynda and Paul discuss this pattern and how to recover peace and calm between the parties involved.
Trauma and Triggers in Relationships: Conflicts Born in the Past #2 of 2, #3245
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Many bumps in the road of relationships turn into major clashes because of past trauma in the history of one or both people. Lynda and Paul discuss this pattern and how to recover peace and calm between the parties involved.
The Blame Game #1 of 2, #3189
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Part one of the Blame Game shows how we shrug off responsibilty by using blame. Blaming others or circumstances keeps us bound up to the "wrong" we perceive.
The Blame Game #2 of 2, #3190
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
In part two, stopping blame is the refusal to let yourself complain and find fault. This allows you to have room to seek answers to your situation.
When Parents Fight, #2 of 2, 3276
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
The parents are the executives of the family and from their marital relationship all the other relationships in the family are derived. When parents have the habit of fighting with each other fiercely or frequently, children may be negatively impacted. In this series of broadcasts, Christine and Lynda discuss the impact and offer suggestions to help parents.
When Parents Fight, #1 of 2, #3275
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
The parents are the executives of the family and from their marital relationship all the other relationships in the family are derived. When parents have the habit of fighting with each other fiercely or frequently, children may be negatively impacted. In this series of broadcasts, Christine and Lynda discuss the impact and offer suggestions to help parents.
Proactive Parenting That Minimizes Sibling Rivalry, #1 of 3, #3277
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Sibling rivalry exists in virtually every family in which there is more than one child. In this 3 part series, Christine and Lynda discuss practical ways that parents can be proactive in minimizing sibling rivalry and help their children to have positive lifelong relationships.
Proactive Parenting That Minimizes Sibling Rivalry, #2 of 3, #3278
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Sibling rivalry exists in virtually every family in which there is more than one child. In this 3 part series, Christine and Lynda discuss practical ways that parents can be proactive in minimizing sibling rivalry and help their children to have positive lifelong relationships.
Proactive Parenting That Minimizes Sibling Rivalry, #3 of 3, #3279
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Sibling rivalry exists in virtually every family in which there is more than one child. In this 3 part series, Christine and Lynda discuss practical ways that parents can be proactive in minimizing sibling rivalry and help their children to have positive lifelong relationships.
Trauma in Relationships, #3281
Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC
Trauma happens to competent, healthy, strong, people. An unexpected assault on the senses or in any way a harmful stressor will cause a natural reaction to anyone. It is lovingly important to know what this response is doing to us in healthy and unhealthy ways. This fascinating program will look at how we are impacted by trauma and what to do about it.
God's Fearless Love For Challenging Relationships, #1 of 9, #3305
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
Fears around the loss of a personal dream can influence our relationships. This program will explore how unspoken inner hopes and dreams can cause conflict in relationships, and how Christ can help us verbalize dreams to self and others.
God's Fearless Love For Challenging Relationships, #2 of 9, #3306
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
Conflict and challenges in relationships were part of Jesus’ walk on earth, just as they are part of our earthly walk. This program will explore how Jesus, Lazarus, and Mary and Martha effectively walked through conflict with one another to a place of love and understanding.
God's Fearless Love For Challenging Relationships, #3 of 9, #3307
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
This program further explores, through study of the story of Jesus raising Lazarus from the dead (John 11), healthy principles of relating to others in challenging times.
God's Fearless Love For Challenging Relationships, #4 of 9, #3308
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
When conflict occurs in a relationship, we can learn to draw from God’s agape love, rather than from our own human love. Through a story of a boy and a horse, this program explores how the principle of abiding in Christ can both help us love others, and also give us wisdom with appropriate boundaries with others.
God's Fearless Love For Challenging Relationships, #5 of 9, #3309
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
Challenges in relationships can include others failing us or disappointing us, even in times of our greatest need. This program gives examples of how Christ drew upon God the Father’s love and sovereignty, and His sovereignty in the terrorist attack on the United States, September 11, 2001.
God's Fearless Love For Challenging Relationships, #6 of 9, #3310
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
This program explores the concept of Godly boundaries in conflictual relationships, and touches on the topic of abuse.
God's Fearless Love For Challenging Relationships, #9 of 9, #3313
Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT
This program is a conversational wrap-up between Lynda Savage and Mary Lambrecht of the series: God’s Fearless Love for Challenging Relationships. It reviews main concepts around challenging relationships: unspoken dreams, communication with challenging individuals, abiding in Christ, Biblical relational models for challenging relationships, and how forgiveness is important.
Family Finances: Don't Go Solo, #1 of 4, #3324
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Many couples experience financial stress at some point in their marriage. How they communicate that stress to one another is significant. In this four part series, Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss ways couples can talk about family finances that builds unity and a team approach to family finances.
Family Finances: Don't Go Solo, #2 of 4, #3325
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Many couples experience financial stress at some point in their marriage. How they communicate that stress to one another is significant. In this four part series, Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss ways couples can talk about family finances that builds unity and a team approach to family finances.
Family Finances: Don't Go Solo, #3 of 4, #3326
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Many couples experience financial stress at some point in their marriage. How they communicate that stress to one another is significant. In this four part series, Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss ways couples can talk about family finances that builds unity and a team approach to family finances.
Family Finances: Don't Go Solo, #4 of 4, #3327
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Many couples experience financial stress at some point in their marriage. How they communicate that stress to one another is significant. In this four part series, Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss ways couples can talk about family finances that builds unity and a team approach to family finances.
Honey, are you doing that to bug me? #1 of 5, #3334
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
We sometimes think that our spouses do things just to bug us, when it is really how they are hard wired. In this series Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss some of the more common ways that spouses may be hard wired differently.
Honey, are you doing that to bug me? #2 of 5, #3335
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
We sometimes think that our spouses do things just to bug us, when it is really how they are hard wired. In this series Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss some of the more common ways that spouses may be hard wired differently.
Honey, are you doing that to bug me? #3 of 5, #3336
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
We sometimes think that our spouses do things just to bug us, when it is really how they are hard wired. In this series Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss some of the more common ways that spouses may be hard wired differently.
Honey, are you doing that to bug me? #4 of 5, #3337
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
We sometimes think that our spouses do things just to bug us, when it is really how they are hard wired. In this series Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss some of the more common ways that spouses may be hard wired differently.
Honey, are you doing that to bug me? #5 of 5, #3338
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
We sometimes think that our spouses do things just to bug us, when it is really how they are hard wired. In this series Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss some of the more common ways that spouses may be hard wired differently.
Working Hard To Be Liked, #1 of 3, #3344
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
People pleasers work very hard to be liked and crave love and acceptance from others at the cost of their own identity. The real person can become lost in the daze of perceived expectations. In this series of radio programs, Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss the need to please and provide practical suggestions on breaking the habit of people pleasing.
Working Hard To Be Liked, #2 of 3, #3345
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
People pleasers work very hard to be liked and crave love and acceptance from others at the cost of their own identity. The real person can become lost in the daze of perceived expectations. In this series of radio programs, Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss the need to please and provide practical suggestions on breaking the habit of people pleasing.
Working Hard To Be Liked, #3 of 3, #3346
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
People pleasers work very hard to be liked and crave love and acceptance from others at the cost of their own identity. The real person can become lost in the daze of perceived expectations. In this series of radio programs, Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss the need to please and provide practical suggestions on breaking the habit of people pleasing.
Standing Up For Yourself While Honoring Others, #1 of 4, #3347
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Conflict can serve to deepen and strengthen relationships when handled well. In this four part series, Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss important principles in handling conflict and standing up for yourself that can lead to deeper and more satisfying relationships.
Standing Up For Yourself While Honoring Others, #2 of 4, #3348
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Conflict can serve to deepen and strengthen relationships when handled well. In this four part series, Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss important principles in handling conflict and standing up for yourself that can lead to deeper and more satisfying relationships.
Standing Up For Yourself While Honoring Others, #3 of 4, #3349
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Conflict can serve to deepen and strengthen relationships when handled well. In this four part series, Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss important principles in handling conflict and standing up for yourself that can lead to deeper and more satisfying relationships.
Family Conflict and the Holidays: God Bless Us, Every One! #1 of 2, #3351
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Christmas is supposed to be a time of great joy and celebration, isn’t it? Yet, many of us find the stress of family and holiday gatherings to be a recipe for conflict. In this two part radio series, Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage share tips on how to handle the stress of family and the holidays.
Family Conflict and the Holidays: God Bless Us, Every One! #2 of 2, #3352
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Christmas is supposed to be a time of great joy and celebration, isn’t it? Yet, many of us find the stress of family and holiday gatherings to be a recipe for conflict. In this two part radio series, Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage share tips on how to handle the stress of family and the holidays.
ADHD and Homework: It Can Work! #1 of 3, #3359
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Children with ADHD have a tremendous amount of potential. ADHD is not a limitation nor a predictor of school performance. In this 3-part series, Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss practical ways parents can help make homework time more productive and less stressful.
ADHD and Homework: It Can Work! #2 of 3, #3360
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Children with ADHD have a tremendous amount of potential. ADHD is not a limitation nor a predictor of school performance. In this 3 part series, Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss practical ways parents can help make homework time more productive and less stressful.
ADHD and Homework: It Can Work! #3 of 3, #3361
Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., CAPSW
Children with ADHD have a tremendous amount of potential. ADHD is not a limitation nor a predictor of school performance. In this 3 part series, Christine Vander Wielen and Lynda Savage discuss practical ways parents can help make homework time more productive and less stressful.
